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to get back at

to get back at

77 5.6
To do something to hurt someone because they hurt you
  • phrasal verb
  • /ɡɛt bæk æt/
  • Informal
translation icon : vengarse de
  • I just wanted to get back at Roger.

so you don't have to worry about revenge or getting back at somebody,

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Examples

  • She wanted to get back at you for what you did to her.

  • Bub had found a way to get back at him for what Anne had done.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • Was that just to get back at Trump or was there something else behind it?

  • You wanna get back at her?

  • You think this is a way to get back at me for what I did to you.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • All he really wanted was to get back at everybody and everything.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • I'll have to find a way to get back at him.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • She's doing this to get back at me.

  • You're just trying to get back at me for what I did this morning.

  • She's plotting to get back at him for spreading those rumors.

Synonyms

to fight back
vsto get back at
188 3.3

Resist an attack or criticism by responding

focuses more on punishing after a wrong rather than immediate defence
to retaliate
vsto get back at
105 7.3

To hurt someone because they hurt you

is the everyday phrase for punishing someone after they harmed you
to avenge
vsto get back at
95 4.9

Punish someone who hurt you or someone you care about

is more about private punishment than formal or moral retribution
to get even
vsto get back at
  • Informal
46 5.4

To do something to hurt someone because they hurt you

is the more casual way to describe seeking personal punishment
to stick it to
vsto get back at
  • Informal
40 8.6

Punish or hurt someone to get revenge

is the plain act of punishing someone who caused harm
to settle
vsto get back at
  • Offensive
36 8.6

To take revenge on someone who harmed you

is more about personal punishment than formal redress or settling
to strike back
vsto get back at
34 4.9

To fight back after someone attacks or hurts you

is more about punishing after harm rather than immediate counterforce
to fix
vsto get back at
  • Informal
29 8.2

To get revenge on someone for something they did

is the common informal description focused on personal punishment
to get back
vsto get back at
  • Informal
24 4.2

Do something to hurt someone because they hurt you

is the general informal expression for the same punitive action
to pay back
vsto get back at
  • Informal
9 3.2

Do something to someone to hurt them for what they did

focuses more on personal punishment rather than balancing an action
to revenge
vsto get back at
9 4.2

To harm someone because they hurt you or someone you care about

is the informal action of punishing rather than formal justice
to pay off
vsto get back at
  • Informal
1 5.1

Take revenge on someone for a wrong

highlights doing it as a personal punishment rather than other responses
to pay (someone) back in (their) own coin
vsto get back at
  • Informal
8.3

Treat someone in the same bad way they treated you

is broader, not limited to mirroring the exact treatment
to fix someone's wagon
vsto get back at
  • Offensive
9.6

Punish someone for something they did to you

is the straightforward phrase for punishing someone who harmed you

Antonyms

1.4

To stop feeling angry at someone or yourself for a mistake

384 2.2

Forgive a fault or bad behaviour

How Vengeful

to revenge
9 4.2
to retaliate
105 7.3
to get back at
  • Informal
77 5.6
to hold a grudge
  • Informal
42 4.8
to let it go
370 3.5

Surface Forms

get back at infinitive
getting back at present participle
gets back at third person singular
got back at past participle

Morphology

get + back + at

There is a clear lexical cue: 'back' suggests doing something in return (payback), so a learner who knows 'get', 'back' and 'at' can often infer that this involves returning an action to someone. However, the precise sense 'to punish or seek revenge' depends on an idiomatic verb–particle–preposition pattern and is not fully predictable from the literal meanings, so it is only partially transparent to a B1 learner.

Etymology

Get back at: The verb get back at comes from the simple image of going back to someone to punish them — you get back to their place and act at them. So, it means 'to take revenge' or 'to do something to punish someone'.