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to get back

to get back

24 4.2
Do something to hurt someone because they hurt you
  • phrasal verb
  • /ɡɛt bæk/
  • Informal
translation icon : vengarse de
  • I just wanted to get back at Roger.
  • just got back
  • way to get back
  • try to get back

I don't appreciated being used as a gossip, you know, tool for you to get back at your boyfriend.

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Examples

  • You think this is a way to get back at me for what I did to you.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • After he hurt her feelings, she decided it was time to get back at him with a playful prank.

  • We get back at them.

  • Maybe she was just using you to try and get back at some guy.

    Fiction book (2001)
  • I fear what future conservative Republicans are going to do to get back at them.

  • You're just trying to get back at me for what I did this morning.

  • Then suddenly she had an idea, a way of getting back at Devin.

    Fiction book (2001)
  • She chose this particular method, because she wanted to get back at me.

  • Maybe it was to get back at Dad for marrying the housekeeper.

  • They want to get back at the first-years!

Synonyms

to get
vsto get back
2.3

To score a point or goal in a game

is a general term for responding to harm beyond games and competitions
to fight back
vsto get back
188 3.3

Resist an attack or criticism by responding

is used more broadly for any response to harm, not only active resistance
to retaliate
vsto get back
105 7.3

To hurt someone because they hurt you

is a general expression for responding to a wrong without method detail
to avenge
vsto get back
95 4.9

Punish someone who hurt you or someone you care about

is a common, less formal expression for personal response to harm
to get back at
vsto get back
  • Informal
77 5.6

To do something to hurt someone because they hurt you

is a general expression for responding to harm, not only punishments
to get even
vsto get back
  • Informal
46 5.4

To do something to hurt someone because they hurt you

is the wider phrase for responding to harm in various ways
to settle
vsto get back
  • Offensive
36 8.6

To take revenge on someone who harmed you

is a broader phrase for responding to harm rather than formal punishment
to strike back
vsto get back
34 4.9

To fight back after someone attacks or hurts you

covers any act that responds to harm, not only direct counterattacks
to fix
vsto get back
  • Informal
29 8.2

To get revenge on someone for something they did

is the general phrase for responding to wrongdoing, not only punishment acts
to pay back
vsto get back
  • Informal
9 3.2

Do something to someone to hurt them for what they did

is a broader label for responding to harm rather than matching acts exactly
to revenge
vsto get back
9 4.2

To harm someone because they hurt you or someone you care about

is the everyday verb phrase for responding to wrongdoing rather than legal justice
to pay off
vsto get back
  • Informal
1 5.1

Take revenge on someone for a wrong

is a simple, general way to describe responding to harm in many situations
8.3

Treat someone in the same bad way they treated you

is a general term for responding to wrongs, not limited to tit for tat

Antonyms

1.4

To stop feeling angry at someone or yourself for a mistake

211 3.0

To forgive someone for a small mistake or rude act

How Vengeful

to revenge
9 4.2
to retaliate
105 7.3
to get back
  • Informal
24 4.2
to hold a grudge
  • Informal
42 4.8
to let it go
370 3.5

Surface Forms

get back infinitive
getting back present participle
gets back third person singular
got back past
got back past participle

Morphology

get + back

The revenge sense is a metaphorical extension of the basic idea of 'return' in get + back (i.e. "give something back" or "return something"), so a learner who knows both words might infer some notion of reciprocation but not specifically 'take revenge'. The specific idiomatic use (often with 'get back at someone' or 'get someone back') requires pragmatic/colloquial knowledge and is not fully predictable from the constituents, so it is partially transparent.

Etymology

Get back The phrasal verb get back may come from the image of returning a hurt: you get something back at the person who hurt you, like doing the same thing to them. That's why it means 'to take revenge'.