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to kiss ass

8 9.5
To try to please someone in power to get an advantage
  • phrasal verb
  • /kɪs æs/
  • Offensive
translation icon : hacer la pelota (a alguien) (informal)
  • What, do you think you got to kiss ass around here…
  • got to kiss ass

What advice do you have for people who want to build out their network and like know good people without feeling like they're just like kissing ass?

Examples

  • Listen, Joe, I don't kiss ass.

  • I do not want to live life kissing ass, and I do not want to live life helping people who take me for granted and use me.

    Blog text (16)
  • I got to kiss ass to keep you out of trouble.

  • You have to kiss ass just to get a piece of it.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • Too busy kissing ass to care about me, is that it?

  • You kissed ass to get where you are.

    Blog text (22)
  • I won't kiss ass in front of these people.

  • I had to kiss ass and stay late because my day got derailed by a phone call.

  • If anyone's gonna be kissing ass, it's them.

  • To get the promotion, he had to kiss ass and flatter his boss during meetings.

Synonyms

to suck up
vsto kiss ass
  • Informal
26 8.0

To praise someone to get their approval

is similar but stresses targeting someone with real power
to kiss up
vsto kiss ass
  • Informal
16 7.9

Say nice things to someone to get their help or a reward

is the same effort but emphasizes doing so toward those in power
to butter up
vsto kiss ass
  • Informal
13 4.2

Say nice things to someone to get what you want

is the same idea but often used more vulgarly or bluntly
to ingratiate
vsto kiss ass
10 8.2

Try to make someone like you by praising them or doing kind things

is more bluntly about flattering someone in power for advantage
to curry favor
vsto kiss ass
  • US
10 7.4

To try to get someone to like you by praising them or being too helpful

is more narrowly about flattering powerful people for advantage
to buck for
vsto kiss ass
  • Archaic
9 8.2

To try hard to get praise or a promotion from someone like a boss

focuses more on flattering powerful people rather than general career effort
to brown-nose
vsto kiss ass
  • Offensive
4 8.2

To flatter someone in power without meaning it to get their favor

is the same action but often said in cruder informal language
to toady
vsto kiss ass
1 9.1

Flatter and obey someone in power to get their favor

is close but often used as a cruder spoken expression
to play up
vsto kiss ass
  • Informal
1 5.5

Try to get someone's approval by giving false praise

is similar but usually implies doing so toward a powerful person
to bootlick
vsto kiss ass
  • Offensive
1 8.7

To praise or obey someone in power to get their support

covers the same flattering aim but with stronger vulgar tone
to lick someone's boot
vsto kiss ass
  • Offensive
8.9

Praise or act very friendly toward a boss to get something for yourself

is similar but often used more graphically and vulgar
to lick someone's ass
vsto kiss ass
  • Offensive
9.9

To praise someone too much to get their favor in a rude way

is the same idea but can be less coarse in expression
to apple-polish
vsto kiss ass
  • Informal
9.0

To give praise that is not real to get a favor

is the same behavior but often used in informal speech
to kiss someone's ring
vsto kiss ass
  • Informal
8.9

To show too much respect and do what a person in power wants

is the same submissive act but often implies ritualised respect
to lick the CEO's balls
vsto kiss ass
  • Offensive
9.9

To praise and obey a powerful person to get their support

is similar but can be expressed less graphically in many contexts

How Ingratiating

to suck up
  • Informal
26 8.0
to kiss ass
  • Offensive
8 9.5
to flatter
100 3.6
to compliment
95 1.6

Surface Forms

kiss ass infinitive
kissed ass past
kissed ass past participle
kissing ass present participle
kisses ass third person singular

Morphology

kiss + ass

The idiomatic meaning 'to flatter or ingratiate oneself' is metaphorically related to the literal image of 'kissing someone’s ass', so the constituents give a clear clue to the intended humiliation/grovelling sense. However, this is slang/vulgar and requires pragmatic and cultural inference beyond the basic meanings of 'kiss' and 'ass', so a B1 learner who simply knows the words may not reliably infer the exact sense without exposure.

Etymology

Kiss ass paints a rude picture: the words kiss and ass suggest someone so eager to please a boss that they would kiss their 'behind' to get favors. That's why it means 'to flatter someone in power to gain an advantage'.