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to suck up

to suck up

26 8.0
To praise someone to get their approval
  • phrasal verb
  • /sʌk ʌp/
  • Informal
translation icon : hacer la pelota a
  • She always tries to suck up to the manager by complimenting her outfits.
  • suck up to the boss
  • suck up to people
  • try to suck up

And do I really think Donald Trump is trying to suck up to Putin?

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Examples

  • I, I didn't know to how to articulate this, but I think in most big companies people are always sucking up to their bosses.

  • I'm like, are they just like sucking up or do they mean it?

  • Who you looking to suck up to, huh, girl?

  • Hey, it's not gonna be as easy for you to suck up to Creative Director, you know.

  • Of course, women have men who suck up to them like this.

    Blog text (28)
  • No, I'm going to have to go into the council and suck up one last time.

  • Heck, more than once, I had guys suck up to me just to get close to her.

    Fiction book (2001)
  • Why don't you go suck up to your Uncle Dave already?

  • You've spent your whole life with people sucking up to you!

  • He was just sucking up to you.

Synonyms

to flatter
vsto suck up
100 3.6

Praise someone with words you do not mean to get their help

adds a stronger sense of servile or grovelling behaviour to gain favor
to fawn
vsto suck up
25 7.7

Act very friendly and praise someone to gain their favor

is more general, including both flattering words and servile actions
to kiss up
vsto suck up
  • Informal
16 7.9

Say nice things to someone to get their help or a reward

leans more toward servile or obsequious conduct rather than casual praise
to butter up
vsto suck up
  • Informal
13 4.2

Say nice things to someone to get what you want

is broader, including both praise and servile or insincere acts to gain favor
to kowtow
vsto suck up
12 9.2

To behave very obediently to please a person in power

adds more focus on flattering words as well as submissive conduct to win favor
to curry favor
vsto suck up
  • US
10 7.4

To try to get someone to like you by praising them or being too helpful

is more likely to include insincere or servile behaviour to get favor
to kiss ass
vsto suck up
  • Offensive
8 9.5

To try to please someone in power to get an advantage

is broader, also applying to casual flattering or servile acts
to cozy up
vsto suck up
  • Informal
6 7.0

To try to make someone like you for your own advantage, often in a fake way

is more overtly servile and focused on flattering for favor
to brown-nose
vsto suck up
  • Offensive
4 8.2

To flatter someone in power without meaning it to get their favor

is similar but also covers milder flattering and general servility
to toady
vsto suck up
1 9.1

Flatter and obey someone in power to get their favor

is similar but can be used for milder or less obvious flattery
to play up
vsto suck up
  • Informal
1 5.5

Try to get someone's approval by giving false praise

is more specifically about servile behaviour to obtain advantages
to shine up
vsto suck up
  • Informal
1 8.0

Try to make someone like you by giving fake praise or acting friendly

is more strongly about servile actions aimed at winning favor
to bootlick
vsto suck up
  • Offensive
1 8.7

To praise or obey someone in power to get their support

is similar but also covers less extreme flattering without deep submission
to truckle
vsto suck up
  • Archaic
1 9.9

To act too obediently to someone in power

adds a stronger emphasis on flattering speech to the submissive behaviour
to apple-polish
vsto suck up
  • Informal
9.0

To give praise that is not real to get a favor

is wider, also covering submissive behaviour beyond mere praise
to honey up to
vsto suck up
  • Informal
8.8

To please someone with too many compliments to get a favor

is more centered on servile or insincere behaviour to gain advantage
to cotton up
vsto suck up
  • UK
9.8

To act friendly to someone to get what you want

is more focused on servility and trying to win favor through subservience
to lick someone's boot
vsto suck up
  • Offensive
8.9

Praise or act very friendly toward a boss to get something for yourself

covers the same seeking of favor but with less extreme grovelling

Antonyms

123 6.7

To make someone feel alone and lose support from others

28 4.7

To make someone feel annoyed or unhappy

How Servile

to grovel
42 7.4
to brown-nose
  • Offensive
4 8.2
to suck up
  • Informal
26 8.0
to butter up
  • Informal
13 4.2
to flatter
100 3.6

Surface Forms

suck up infinitive
sucked up past
sucked up past participle
sucking up present participle
sucks up third person singular

Morphology

suck + up

The meaning 'to try to gain favor by flattering' cannot be directly derived from the literal senses of 'suck' (to pull) and 'up' (toward a reference point); the social action is idiomatic and metaphorical rather than a straightforward physical composition. A B1 learner who knows the constituent words but has not encountered the expression would unlikely predict the flattering/servile sense, so this is opaque.

Etymology

Suck up may come from imagining someone 'sucking' praise or attention up toward themselves, as if pulling it in with a straw. That's why it means 'to try to gain favor by flattering someone'.