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to flatter

to flatter

100 3.6
Praise someone with words you do not mean to get their help
  • verb
  • /ˈflætər/
translation icon : adular
  • She would often flatter her boss to get a promotion, telling him he was the best manager she ever had.
  • even flatter

When it's your mother, it's like, that's clearly trying to flatter the mother.

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Examples

  • -You are easily flattered.

  • Most people would be flattered by that, or pleased, or something a little more human.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • - Are you trying to flatter me? - Yes...

  • Your words are kind and they flatter me, but I think of her as a sister.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • So I'm very flattered by this.

  • But I must say, I'm very flattered that you came here because you don't know me from Adam.

  • I'm flattered by the cosplay, but you got a few details wrong.

  • "I would have been flattered," said Min Leung, one of the students on the committee.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • The clothing not only flattered her slender, tall figure, it gave an aura of mystery.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • To win the competition, he tried to flatter the judges with compliments about their previous work.

Synonyms

to praise
vsto flatter
331 1.0

To tell a person that you admire or approve of them

is often offered insincerely to please or gain advantage
to compliment
vsto flatter
95 1.6

To say something nice about someone or their work

is praise often used to please or gain advantage rather than be sincere
to glorify
vsto flatter
86 5.2

To make a person or thing seem better and more important than they really are

is praise often used insincerely to please or gain advantage
to commend
vsto flatter
67 4.4

To praise someone or something for good work

is praise that is often insincere and aimed at gaining advantage
to laud
vsto flatter
  • Formal
30 7.7

To praise someone publicly in a formal way

is praise frequently intended to please or obtain advantage
to suck up
vsto flatter
  • Informal
26 8.0

To praise someone to get their approval

is praise often insincere and used to gain advantage
to exalt
vsto flatter
  • Formal
21 7.2

To raise someone to a higher position or praise them strongly

is praise commonly used to please or acquire advantage
to butter up
vsto flatter
  • Informal
13 4.2

Say nice things to someone to get what you want

is often insincere praise aimed to please or gain advantage
to puff
vsto flatter
  • Literature
7 7.4

To praise something too much to make people want to buy it

is praise often insincere and meant to gain advantage
to extol
vsto flatter
7 7.5

To praise someone or something very much

is praise that often serves to please or gain advantage
to sing the praises
vsto flatter
6 4.1

Say strong good things about someone or something in public

is praise frequently given insincerely to please or gain advantage
to sing the praises of
vsto flatter
5 4.5

Say very good things about someone or something

is praise commonly offered insincerely to please or secure advantage
to play up
vsto flatter
  • Informal
1 5.5

Try to get someone's approval by giving false praise

is praise typically given to please or obtain an advantage
to adulate
vsto flatter
  • Formal
1 8.5

Praise someone too much when you are not sincere

is praise typically used to please or secure advantage
to puff up
vsto flatter
1 6.4

To praise someone too much to make them seem better

is praise frequently used to please or obtain advantage
to sing praises
vsto flatter
1 4.1

To say very good things about someone, often in public

is praise that is often insincere and used to gain advantage
to overpraise
vsto flatter
1 6.4

To say too many good things about someone who does not deserve them

is praise that often carries insincerity to please or gain advantage
praise to the skies
vsto flatter
  • Informal
1 5.8

Say very good things about someone or something with strong feeling

is praise often used to please someone or gain advantage
to vaunt
vsto flatter
  • Archaic
1 8.9

To talk proudly about your achievements to show off

is praise that often aims to please or win advantage
to apple-polish
vsto flatter
  • Informal
9.0

To give praise that is not real to get a favor

is praise usually meant to please or secure advantage
to blandish
vsto flatter
9.9

To persuade someone using gentle or false praise

is praise commonly used to please or get an advantage
to beslaver
vsto flatter
  • Archaic
9.9

To praise someone in a way that is not sincere to get a favor

is praise often aimed at pleasing or gaining advantage
to heap on praise
vsto flatter
4.0

To give a lot of praise, often more than needed

is praise often insincere and aimed at pleasing or gaining advantage

Antonyms

701 3.3

To say what is wrong with someone or something

28 7.7

To speak badly about someone or something to show little respect

How Complimentary

to adulate
  • Formal
1 8.5
to butter up
  • Informal
13 4.2
to flatter
100 3.6
to praise
331 1.0

Surface Forms

flatter infinitive
flattered past
flattered past participle
flattering present participle
flatters third person singular

Etymology

Flatter comes from an old idea of 'to stroke' or 'to caress' someone to make them feel good; think of gently 'stroking' a person's pride with words. So, to flatter someone is to praise them to please them or to gain an advantage.