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to toady

to toady

1 9.1
Flatter and obey someone in power to get their favor
  • verb
  • /ˈtoʊdi/
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  • We don't need to toady like the Dems do, and promise free contraceptives.

If Trump's spineless toadying to Putin made you think what's Vlad got on him?

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Examples

  • She always tries to toady to her boss by praising his every decision.

  • Stop toadying to your teacher; just do your best work like everyone else.

  • If you aren't trying to toady up to religious people, you are doing a damn good job of pretending to.

    Blog text (19)
  • The course taught me how this is exactly what the forces of the status quo want, and I resolved not to "toady" to them anymore.

    Academic text (1996)
  • Quit toadying to "spokesman" like Trump, the Mouth of the North.

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  • I've had to fawn and toady, and make a mock of myself... till all I could hear was the world laughing at me.

  • If the generals weren't eying political office after they got out, they were toadying up to the politicians to keep their position or gain favors.

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  • The criteria for getting ahead at Microsoft are no longer critical thinking but an ability to espouse a joyous future for any given product or program while at the same time toadying up in a sufficient way to the managers above you.

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  • Unfortunately, Vic is leaving behind an entire squad of senior manager cheerleaders who are still waving pom poms, emoting, and toadying up.

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  • To win the promotion, he began to toady to the senior executives more than usual.

Synonyms

to suck up
vsto toady
  • Informal
26 8.0

To praise someone to get their approval

is more about servile acts toward authority than polite persuasion
to fawn
vsto toady
25 7.7

Act very friendly and praise someone to gain their favor

is aimed specifically at pleasing people in authority
to butter up
vsto toady
  • Informal
13 4.2

Say nice things to someone to get what you want

is more servile and submissive rather than just flattering words
to kowtow
vsto toady
12 9.2

To behave very obediently to please a person in power

is less extreme and focuses on servile flattery to gain favor
to curry favor
vsto toady
  • US
10 7.4

To try to get someone to like you by praising them or being too helpful

focuses more on flattering or servile actions rather than helpfulness
to kiss ass
vsto toady
  • Offensive
8 9.5

To try to please someone in power to get an advantage

has similar meaning but with more informal or coarse tone
to brown-nose
vsto toady
  • Offensive
4 8.2

To flatter someone in power without meaning it to get their favor

is broader and covers servile acts as well as insincere praise
to bow and scrape
vsto toady
  • Archaic
3 9.4

Behave too politely and humbly to please someone

places more emphasis on exaggerated submission than on flattery
to soft-soap
vsto toady
  • Informal
1 7.7

To try to persuade someone by giving false praise

aims to gain favor through servility rather than just gentle persuasion
to honey
vsto toady
  • Informal
1 8.1

To speak very kindly to someone to get something from them

is more explicitly servile and intentionally flattering to authority figures
to bootlick
vsto toady
  • Offensive
1 8.7

To praise or obey someone in power to get their support

is used for servile behaviour even if no praise is given
to truckle
vsto toady
  • Archaic
1 9.9

To act too obediently to someone in power

is more about flattering or seeking favor not only obedience
to court favor
vsto toady
1 6.8

To try to get someone's approval by praising them a lot

is typically aimed at people who hold authority or power
to honey up to
vsto toady
  • Informal
8.8

To please someone with too many compliments to get a favor

has a stronger element of servility and subservience to authority
to lick someone's boot
vsto toady
  • Offensive
8.9

Praise or act very friendly toward a boss to get something for yourself

is about gaining favor rather than direct personal benefit
to lick the CEO's balls
vsto toady
  • Offensive
9.9

To praise and obey a powerful person to get their support

is a neutral term for the same servile behavior without vulgar language

Antonyms

701 3.3

To say what is wrong with someone or something

How Servile

to grovel
42 7.4
to toady
1 9.1
to fawn
25 7.7
to flatter
100 3.6

Surface Forms

toady infinitive
toadied past
toadied past participle
toadying present participle
toadies third person singular

Etymology

Toady comes from the old phrase toad-eater, a name for performers who pretended to eat toads to please a crowd. So, to toady is to flatter or do embarrassing things to win someone's favour.