to kiss ass
- phrasal verb
- /kɪs æs/
- Offensive
- What, do you think you got to kiss ass around here…
- got to kiss ass
What advice do you have for people who want to build out their network and like know good people without feeling like they're just like kissing ass?
- What advice do you have for people who want to build out their network and like know good people without feeling like they're just like kissing ass?
Examples
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Listen, Joe, I don't kiss ass.
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I do not want to live life kissing ass, and I do not want to live life helping people who take me for granted and use me.
Blog text (16) -
I got to kiss ass to keep you out of trouble.
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You have to kiss ass just to get a piece of it.
Fiction book (1998) -
Too busy kissing ass to care about me, is that it?
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You kissed ass to get where you are.
Blog text (22) -
I won't kiss ass in front of these people.
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I had to kiss ass and stay late because my day got derailed by a phone call.
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If anyone's gonna be kissing ass, it's them.
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To get the promotion, he had to kiss ass and flatter his boss during meetings.
Synonyms
To praise someone to get their approval
Say nice things to someone to get their help or a reward
Say nice things to someone to get what you want
Try to make someone like you by praising them or doing kind things
To try to get someone to like you by praising them or being too helpful
To try hard to get praise or a promotion from someone like a boss
To flatter someone in power without meaning it to get their favor
Flatter and obey someone in power to get their favor
Try to get someone's approval by giving false praise
To praise or obey someone in power to get their support
Praise or act very friendly toward a boss to get something for yourself
To praise someone too much to get their favor in a rude way
To give praise that is not real to get a favor
To show too much respect and do what a person in power wants
To praise and obey a powerful person to get their support
How Ingratiating
Surface Forms
Morphology
kiss + ass
The idiomatic meaning 'to flatter or ingratiate oneself' is metaphorically related to the literal image of 'kissing someone’s ass', so the constituents give a clear clue to the intended humiliation/grovelling sense. However, this is slang/vulgar and requires pragmatic and cultural inference beyond the basic meanings of 'kiss' and 'ass', so a B1 learner who simply knows the words may not reliably infer the exact sense without exposure.
Etymology
Kiss ass paints a rude picture: the words kiss and ass suggest someone so eager to please a boss that they would kiss their 'behind' to get favors. That's why it means 'to flatter someone in power to gain an advantage'.