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hurtfully

hurtfully

1 4.1
In a way that makes someone feel sad or in pain
  • adverb
  • /ˈhɜrtfəlɪ/
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  • I think I have never felt so ignorant in my life, and I was still hurtfully hungry and wondering what we were going to do.

Examples

  • He knew the stakes; he knew that he could do nothing but divert a handful of votes and, more hurtfully, discourage more of his people from voting at all; but he could not bring himself to face reality—or he cannot recognize reality.

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  • How will my kids figure out that the consequence of behaving hurtfully is the seemingly obvious fact that people will feel hurt if I am always pretending otherwise?

    Blog text (19)
  • That was hurtfully over-the-top, beats-them-all offensive and reversed prejudiced, knitbunnie.

    Blog text (1)
  • She spoke hurtfully during the argument, leaving him feeling deeply upset.

  • His hurtfully sarcastic comments made her feel unwelcome at the gathering.

  • They didn't realize how hurtfully their words affected her feelings.

Synonyms

brutally
vshurtfully
  • Offensive
142 6.1

In a cruel or very harsh way that causes harm

causes emotional pain but does not always involve violence
painfully
vshurtfully
106 3.7

In a way that causes physical or emotional pain

focuses on emotional harm rather than physical pain
badly
vshurtfully
56 1.0

In a way that shows strong emotion or upset

causes pain specifically rather than general strong emotions
harshly
vshurtfully
49 3.5

In a severe or unkind way that feels unpleasant

causes emotional pain but not always through severity or roughness
bitterly
vshurtfully
47 3.2

In a very angry or hurt way that shows strong negative feeling

causes emotional pain without necessarily being emotionally intense
cruelly
vshurtfully
16 3.0

In a way that hurts people on purpose

can cause pain even when not done with deliberate cruelty
callously
vshurtfully
7 7.7

In a way that shows no care for other people's feelings

can cause pain even when not showing deliberate disregard
grievously
vshurtfully
  • Formal
6 7.2

In a way that causes great harm, pain, or sadness

is used for very serious harm, not mild emotional pain
unkindly
vshurtfully
4 4.4

To act in a harsh or mean way that hurts others

causes hurt but may not be simply a lack of kindness
heartbreakingly
vshurtfully
3 5.1

In a way that makes people feel very sad

is broader, covering emotional harm beyond deep sorrow
spitefully
vshurtfully
2 7.0

To do something to hurt or upset someone on purpose

causes pain but not all pain comes from spiteful motives
abusively
vshurtfully
  • NSFW
2 6.3

In a cruel way that often uses hurtful words or actions

may cause emotional pain without physical violence or insults
hatefully
vshurtfully
1 6.6

In a way that shows strong dislike and anger

can cause pain without involving intense hate or malice
meanly
vshurtfully
1 7.0

In a cruel way that shows unkind feelings and hurts others

causes pain but need not be actively nasty or cruel
heartlessly
vshurtfully
1 6.1

In a way that shows no kindness or care

causes pain but may not involve complete lack of compassion
pitilessly
vshurtfully
1 7.6

In a way that shows no pity or mercy

causes emotional harm but may not be utterly merciless
uncharitably
vshurtfully
1 6.8

In a harsh and unkind way toward other people

may cause emotional pain without implying lack of generosity
upsettingly
vshurtfully
1 5.1

In a way that makes someone feel sad or worried

causes strong emotional pain rather than mere worry
wrenchingly
vshurtfully
1 8.1

In a way that causes strong emotional pain

is about causing pain but less about intense, wrenching feeling
cattily
vshurtfully
1 8.9

Says things in a mean, slightly cruel way to hurt someone

causes emotional hurt but not always through subtle insults
ungently
vshurtfully
1 8.0

In a rough way that hurts or upsets someone

may cause emotional harm without physical roughness or force
unsympathetically
vshurtfully
1 6.6

Without showing care for someone's feelings

causes distress but does not require absence of sympathy
tormentingly
vshurtfully
  • NSFW
8.5

In a way that causes someone a lot of pain or worry

causes pain but not necessarily repeatedly or for long
stingingly
vshurtfully
7.7

In a sharply critical way that hurts someone's feelings

causes pain without needing sharp criticism or sarcasm
cuttingly
vshurtfully
7.4

In a way that aims to hurt someone's feelings

causes pain but not always with deliberate sharpness
meanspiritedly
vshurtfully
  • Offensive
8.5

In a mean way that tries to hurt someone

may cause emotional harm without petty or small-minded intent
invidiously
vshurtfully
  • Formal
9.8

In a way that makes people feel unfairly treated and angry

causes pain but may not carry an unfair, provoking quality
acrimoniously
vshurtfully
8.1

In a bitter, angry way during a disagreement

causes distress but may not always involve bitter anger
injuriously
vshurtfully
7.6

In a way that causes harm to someone or something

is often physical rather than emotional in focus
abrasively
vshurtfully
6.5

In a harsh, rude way that upsets people when speaking or acting

can offend feelings but does not always use an abrasive manner
woundedly
vshurtfully
  • Literature
7.2

In a way that shows hurt feelings

is about showing personal pain rather than causing pain to others

Antonyms

2 3.3

In a way that makes someone feel calm and less worried

How Hurtful

maliciously
10 7.1
cruelly
16 3.0
hurtfully
1 4.1
unkindly
4 4.4

Surface Forms

hurtfully positive
hurtfully comparative
hurtfuller comparative

Morphology

hurtfully = hurtful (transparent) = hurt + ful + ly

Formed by adding the adverbial suffix '-ly' to the adjective 'hurtful'; the manner meaning 'in a hurtful way' is directly derived.

Etymology

Hurtfully is made from hurt ('to cause pain'), plus -ful ('full of') and -ly ('in a way'). So hurtfully means doing something 'in a way that causes physical or emotional pain'.