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gruffness

gruffness

1 6.6
A rough, unfriendly way of speaking or acting
  • noun
  • /ˈɡrəf.nəs/
: brusquedad
  • The visuals do a pretty good job of putting their own emphasis on the violence and chaos, while the voice-over brings gruffness and basic exposition.

Examples

  • "She lowered her voice, aiming for husky emotion but achieving only hilarious throaty gruffness.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • Despite her gruffness, she always spoke kindly to her students.

  • So you can't let their gruffness bother you or deter you.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • Mo had just the desired dose of gruffness you could expect from a patriarch, and as such, was popular too.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • His pride wouldn't let him admit to that, but she knew him well enough to read the concern beneath the outer gruffness.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • Soon I struck upon the idea of pretending that Nohu himself was the chairman; every time he spoke, I overlooked his gruffness and tried to imagine gentleness instead.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • I am aware, of course, that none of this troubled me then, that I felt nothing but love for this man—for his gruffness, his way with the world—and saw nothing but love returned.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • His gruffness made it hard for others to see how caring he truly was.

  • The old man's gruffness intimidated newcomers, but he was really quite friendly.

Synonyms

sharp tongue
vsgruffness
7 6.1

A habit of speaking in a harsh, critical way

is broader, focusing on rough and abrupt manner not only biting remarks
bluntness
vsgruffness
7 4.8

A direct and honest way of speaking that can seem rude

is less about frankness and more about rough, unfriendly abruptness
coarseness
vsgruffness
2 6.4

Rudeness or crude behavior that shows little politeness

is rough and abrupt in tone specifically, not only lacking refinement
sternness
vsgruffness
1 5.1

A strict, serious attitude that does not allow bad behavior

is rough and unfriendly in delivery rather than formal strictness
surliness
vsgruffness
1 7.7

A way of behaving that is angry and unfriendly

is similar but focuses more on roughness and harsh speech than mood alone
brusqueness
vsgruffness
1 7.9

A short, direct way of speaking that often seems rude

is rougher and less only about blunt directness, adding unfriendly tone
sharpness
vsgruffness
1 4.6

A harsh, sudden way of speaking that sounds unfriendly

is rougher and more unfriendly rather than only urgent tone
boorishness
vsgruffness
1 8.1

Rude, insensitive behavior that ignores good manners

is specifically harsh and abrupt in speech rather than broadly uncouth behaviour
abrasiveness
vsgruffness
1 7.0

A harsh, rude manner or tone that offends people

is closer in abruptness and roughness rather than the offense-causing focus
abruptness
vsgruffness
1 5.2

A rude, sudden way of speaking or behaving

is similar but includes roughness and unfriendliness beyond suddenness
snippiness
vsgruffness
1 7.7

A short, slightly rude way of speaking to someone

is harsher overall, adding rough or harsh delivery beyond mere curt replies
ungentleness
vsgruffness
1 8.2

A harsh, unkind way of speaking or acting

is more about abrupt, unfriendly speech than general absence of gentleness
acerbity
vsgruffness
1 9.8

A sharp, bitter way of speaking that hurts people

is rough and abrupt in delivery rather than mainly bitter tone
churlishness
vsgruffness
  • Formal
1 8.6

Rude, unfriendly behavior that makes other people feel unwelcome

is rough in manner and speech rather than intentionally mean in spirit
curtness
vsgruffness
1 7.0

A short, rude way of speaking that sounds unfriendly

is broader, combining curt words with a generally rough or unfriendly manner
roughness
vsgruffness
1 3.9

A harsh quality in a voice or behavior that feels severe

is similar but emphasizes unfriendly abruptness rather than general severity
shortness
vsgruffness
1 6.5

A quick, unfriendly way of speaking to someone

matches but the key leans more to roughness and harshness in tone
causticity
vsgruffness
1 9.7

Speech or writing that is sharply critical and makes people feel bad

is rough and abrupt in manner rather than specifically sarcastic criticism
brassiness
vsgruffness
1 6.0

A loud, bold way of behaving that often seems rude

is mainly about rough and abrupt speech rather than bold loudness
thorniness
vsgruffness
8.9

A harsh, unfriendly manner that hurts or upsets people

is similar but the key stresses abruptness in speech more clearly
acridity
vsgruffness
9.4

A harsh tone in speech or writing that hurts people

is rough and abrupt in manner rather than only bitter tonal quality
acridness
vsgruffness
8.4

A sharp, bitter way of speaking that hurts people

is rough and abrupt in behaviour and speech, not solely disagreeable tone

Antonyms

62 1.0

A friendly, kind feeling in the way someone speaks or acts

14 1.0

A kind and pleasant way of treating other people

How Gruff

surliness
1 7.7
gruffness
1 6.6
curtness
1 7.0
abruptness
2 6.3
gentleness
18 1.3

Surface Forms

gruffness singular
gruffnesses plural

Morphology

gruffness = gruff (transparent) = gruff + ness

Formed by the adjective 'gruff' plus the productive noun-forming suffix '-ness'; the meaning is directly predictable.

Etymology

Gruffness comes from the adjective gruff, which probably imitates a low, rough sound like a short 'growl'. So, gruffness is the quality of having a rough, harsh, or unfriendly manner or voice.