to unbend
- verb
- /ʌnˈbɛnd/
- A crystal-clear mind, unbending inner strength, yet hopelessly clumsy.
Examples
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And you may even enjoy yourself if you unbend a bit.
Fiction book (1999) -
Some of the flowers shake themselves in the marsh-farm gardens, unbending, standing up straight again.
Fiction book (2002) -
Oh, I suppose you could learn to unbend a little now and then, but why would she not like you?
Fiction book (1995) -
Should she unbend more?
Academic text (1997) -
He would not unbend more than that, not for his own nameday.
Fiction book (1992) -
That should satisfy her so much she might unbend enough to say his name, which had not crossed her lips since the night he left home.
Fiction book (1991) -
When his mind unbends itself in a reverie, and without attending to any particular object, the ideas appear and glide away according to the caprice of undirected fancy...
Academic text (2017) -
She nodded her head in assent to her evaluation, placed her right hand on the bench, and, pushing, sliding, and humming, stood up, unbending slowly.
Fiction book (1996) -
Unbending—considerately, of course, with a solicitous hand—unbending with familiar pity, that is the characteristic art of Jesuitism which has always known how to introduce itself as a religion of pity.
Academic text (2000) -
After a long day at work, she likes to unbend by taking a warm bath and reading a good book.
Synonyms
To feel less nervous and more calm
Become relaxed and less tense after work or a stressful time
To relax and become less nervous or tense
Feel calm and not worried after someone reassures you
Relax and become less tense after work or stress
Become more relaxed and easygoing
How Relaxed
Surface Forms
Morphology
Etymology
Unbend is built from un- meaning 'reverse' and bend meaning 'to curve' or 'to be stiff', and a helpful way to remember it is to picture a formal, stiff person who slowly relaxes. So to unbend is to loosen up and become less tense.