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shame

shame

418 2.3
A painful feeling of guilt and embarrassment about something you did wrong
  • noun
  • /ʃeɪm/
translation icon : vergüenza
  • I have felt guilt and shame surrounding adoption.
  • feel shame
  • feelings of shame
  • sense of shame

But for them, what mutes the shame is the win.

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Examples

  • You have brought shame upon yourself and upon us.

  • And I still feel shame and sadness over those moments.

  • Now, do some people feel too much shame more than they ought to?

  • Now there is a secret shame in here.

  • What if someone has too much shame to seek out a coach?

  • "The boy knew he was supposed to feel great shame, but he felt little.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • The worst feelings in the world are shame, fear, guilt.

  • It took me years to get rid of the shame of self promotion.

  • That reflex of fear, guilt, shame, we come by it honestly, right?

  • He felt a deep sense of shame after realizing his mistake hurt others.

Synonyms

guilt
vsshame
375 2.4

A feeling of being sorry and responsible for doing something wrong

is a painful feeling that also involves disgrace or humiliation beyond responsibility
regret
vsshame
292 1.0

A sad feeling about a past action, a loss, or a missed chance

is a painful moral feeling that includes disgrace or guilt rather than mere sadness
embarrassment
vsshame
219 3.1

A feeling of awkwardness or shame

is a stronger, more painful feeling tied to wrongdoing or disgrace
remorse
vsshame
156 4.5

A deep, painful feeling of regret and guilt after doing something wrong

is a painful feeling that often includes disgrace or public humiliation
humiliation
vsshame
  • Offensive
148 4.2

A feeling of shame and loss of respect for yourself after being made to look foolish

is a painful feeling from one's own wrong behaviour not only from public ridicule
contrition
vsshame
  • Formal
19 8.4

A deep feeling of regret and sorrow for something you did wrong

is a painful feeling that stresses disgrace or humiliation rather than ritual remorse
16 4.2

A feeling of being sorry and worried after doing something wrong

is a painful feeling that includes social disgrace as well as inner guilt
sense of shame
vsshame
5 4.9

A feeling of guilt that makes you try not to do something wrong

is a painful feeling caused by wrong or foolish behaviour
rue
vsshame
5 7.9

A feeling of being sorry about something you did or missed

is a painful moral feeling that adds disgrace or humiliation to sorrow
mortification
vsshame
2 8.6

A strong feeling of shame or deep embarrassment

is a painful feeling that can be milder than this intense state
guilt feelings
vsshame
1 3.9

Feeling sorry and responsible for doing something wrong

is a painful feeling that often adds humiliation or loss of self-respect
self-disgust
vsshame
1 7.9

A strong feeling of shame and dislike for yourself

is a painful feeling that may not involve such intense self-revulsion
self-reproach
vsshame
1 7.1

A feeling of blaming yourself for something you did wrong

is a painful feeling that focuses more on public disgrace than private blame
shamefacedness
vsshame
9.3

A feeling of being embarrassed and sorry after you do something wrong

is an internal painful feeling rather than an outward manner
9.9

A strong feeling of shame and deep disappointment

is a painful feeling that is often less extreme than this
contriteness
vsshame
  • Formal
8.4

A deep feeling of regret and sorrow for doing something wrong

is a painful feeling that is more about disgrace than fear-motivated sorrow

Antonyms

honor
  • US
2.2

Respect given to a person for good moral behavior

647 1.8

A feeling of satisfaction and self-respect in yourself or others

Idioms

crying shame
  • Informal
6 4.6

A very sad situation that makes people feel sorry

Compounds

A feeling of guilt that makes you try not to do something wrong

8.6

A spicy tomato drink without alcohol like a Bloody Mary

cone of shame
  • Informal
7.6

A plastic collar put on a pet to stop it from licking or biting wounds

deuced shame
  • Archaic
9.9

A great pity or disappointment

durn shame
  • Informal
9.9

A feeling of regret or disappointment about something unfortunate

A plant whose leaves fold when touched or at night

How Ashamed

humiliation
  • Offensive
148 4.2
shame
418 2.3
embarrassment
219 3.1

Surface Forms

shame singular
shames plural

Etymology

Shame goes back to an old German word for the feeling that makes you want to hide, like wanting to 'hide your face' after a mistake, and you can see the same idea in the word ashamed. So shame today is that painful, guilty feeling that makes people feel small or want to hide.