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rue

rue

5 7.9
A feeling of being sorry about something you did or missed
  • noun
  • /ruː/
translation icon : remordimiento
  • She felt a deep sense of rue when reflecting on her missed opportunities.

Examples

  • Rue... for your regrets and your sisters.

  • 'Tis paid with sighs aplenty, and sold for endless rue.'"

  • As the poem opens, the narrator speaks of his rue-laden heart, raising the question: Why is he sad?

    Academic text (2009)
  • Among the personal meanings of "With rue my heart is laden" is what Housman dared not say.

    Academic text (2009)
  • His words were filled with rue as he apologized for the hurt he had caused.

  • After losing the game, there was a collective rue among the players for not preparing better.

Synonyms

guilt
vsrue
375 2.4

A feeling of being sorry and responsible for doing something wrong

is broader and also covers sadness from loss or disappointment
regret
vsrue
292 1.0

A sad feeling about a past action, a loss, or a missed chance

is used when the feeling links specifically to something done or to disappointment
sorrow
vsrue
243 2.1

A deep feeling of sadness after a loss

is narrower, focusing on sadness connected to past wrongs or disappointment
remorse
vsrue
156 4.5

A deep, painful feeling of regret and guilt after doing something wrong

is milder and can also cover simple sadness or disappointment
repentance
vsrue
31 6.6

A feeling of deep regret and a wish to change after doing wrong

focuses on the feeling itself rather than on repair or action
wistfulness
vsrue
2 6.8

A gentle, sad feeling of missing the past

is more direct regret or sorrow about a specific wrong or disappointment
1 6.1

A sudden sharp feeling of regret about something you did or did not do

is generally steadier and not necessarily sudden or sharp
1 3.9

Feeling sorry and responsible for doing something wrong

covers regret or sorrow without implying personal responsibility
ruefulness
vsrue
8.4

A feeling of sadness and regret about a past mistake

is the same feeling but used more broadly in everyday speech
contriteness
vsrue
  • Formal
8.4

A deep feeling of regret and sorrow for doing something wrong

is similar emotionally but lacks the punishment-focused motive
sense of wormwood
vsrue
  • Archaic
9.9

A bitter feeling of regret after disappointment

leans more toward plain regret or sadness without the bitter tone
sorriness
vsrue
6.3

A feeling of regret or sadness about something you did

is more about the inner feeling tied to a past wrong or loss

Antonyms

joy
793 1.0

A strong feeling of great happiness

26 2.1

A feeling of being happy and satisfied with your life

Idioms

to rue the day
  • Informal
9 8.1

Feel very sorry about a past action or decision

Compounds

A small plant from eastern North America with thick roots and white flowers tinged pink

9.9

A thin plant that lives many years with small white flowers tinged pink

A plant with thin divided leaves and small purple or yellow flowers that grows in damp meadows by streams

goat rue
  • Specialized
9.9

A tall bushy plant from Europe with blue flowers used in traditional medicine

9.9

A tall European plant with many leaflets and spikes of blue flowers used sometimes as a medicine

goat's rue
  • Specialized
9.9

A North American bush with soft hairy leaves and pale flowers sometimes used to kill insects

9.9

A small white or pink flower that grows on the forest floor in spring in eastern North America

A group of flowering plants like oranges and lemons with strongly scented leaves

9.9

A small fern with delicate leaves that grows on old walls and rocks

A small delicate fern that grows on walls and cliffs

How Regretful

contrition
  • Formal
19 8.4
remorse
156 4.5
rue
5 7.9
regret
292 1.0
disappointment
223 1.7

Surface Forms

rue singular
rues plural

Etymology

Rue comes from an old word meaning 'to be sorry' or 'feel regret', so the noun names that feeling of sorrow. A helpful way to remember it is to think of regret as a 'bitter' feeling, like the herb ruta.