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ruefulness

ruefulness

8.4
A feeling of sadness and regret about a past mistake
  • noun
  • /ˈruːfəl.nəs/
translation icon : arrepentimiento
  • After realizing his mistake, he felt a deep sense of ruefulness about the decision he had made.

Examples

  • When I brought that second cup to the counter, we both clucked the way grown men will do over the ruefulness of life and its spillings.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • There was a ruefulness to his movements, a sense of apology.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • Also, this time, let's try, actually looking at Dierdre as we speak, looking into her eyes, and speaking our line with a certain... ruefulness.

  • "I sometimes forget myself:" "Like tonight:" He nodded with mock ruefulness.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • - Ruefulness, okay.

  • William Cowper, in a poem about a field of poplars being cut down, observes with a mixture of ruefulness and reconciliation that "the tree is my seat that once lent me shade."

    Academic text (1997)
  • His attitude toward his characters generally combines condescension, ruefulness, and irony, like that of an adult recounting some inconsequential grief or terror from his own childhood.

    Academic text (2003)
  • There was a ruefulness in her tone as she recalled the opportunities she had missed.

  • In his speech, he expressed ruefulness for the time he wasted not pursuing his dreams.

Synonyms

regret
vsruefulness
292 1.0

A sad feeling about a past action, a loss, or a missed chance

is the same feeling but used especially after personal mistakes or disappointments
sorrow
vsruefulness
243 2.1

A deep feeling of sadness after a loss

is deep sadness that specifically includes regret about a mistake or disappointment
sadness
vsruefulness
229 1.0

A feeling of being unhappy

is a specific kind of that unhappiness focused on mistakes or disappointment
remorse
vsruefulness
156 4.5

A deep, painful feeling of regret and guilt after doing something wrong

is similar but is often milder and tied to general mistakes or losses
melancholy
vsruefulness
37 5.9

Feeling or showing deep sadness

is instead driven by regret about a specific mistake or disappointment
rue
vsruefulness
5 7.9

A feeling of being sorry about something you did or missed

is sadness tied to mistakes or disappointments rather than other causes
despondency
vsruefulness
4 8.3

A strong feeling of sadness and loss of hope after something bad

is sadness specifically about mistakes or disappointments rather than hopelessness
wistfulness
vsruefulness
2 6.8

A gentle, sad feeling of missing the past

is more focused on clear regret about a mistake or disappointment
mournfulness
vsruefulness
1 6.5

A deep, quiet feeling or look of sadness

is sadness that highlights regret about a personal mistake or disappointment
despondence
vsruefulness
1 8.8

A feeling of deep sadness and no hope

is instead a feeling of sadness tied to a mistake or disappointment
sorriness
vsruefulness
6.3

A feeling of regret or sadness about something you did

focuses more narrowly on sadness caused by mistakes or disappointments
contriteness
vsruefulness
  • Formal
8.4

A deep feeling of regret and sorrow for doing something wrong

is less about moral guilt and more about everyday mistakes or disappointments
glumness
vsruefulness
6.6

A quiet feeling of sadness and low spirits

is sadness tied to regret about an action or a disappointment
sorrowfulness
vsruefulness
6.3

A deep feeling of sadness about a loss

is that sadness but specifically focused on regret over errors or losses
dolefulness
vsruefulness
9.0

Deep, quiet sadness often caused by grief

is similar but centers on regret about mistakes or disappointments
downheartedness
vsruefulness
6.8

A feeling of being sad and having little hope

is more about sadness caused by regret over actions or disappointments

Antonyms

192 2.2

A pleasant feeling when you achieve something or your needs are met

26 2.1

A feeling of being happy and satisfied with your life

How Regretful

contrition
  • Formal
19 8.4
repentance
31 6.6
remorse
156 4.5
ruefulness
8.4
regret
292 1.0

Surface Forms

ruefulness singular
ruefulnesses plural

Morphology

ruefulness = rueful (transparent) = rue + ful + ness

Standard noun formation from the adjective 'rueful' using '-ness' to indicate the state or quality of feeling regret.

Etymology

Ruefulness comes from the small word rue, which means 'regret' or 'to be sorry', and the endings -ful meaning 'full of' and -ness which makes it a noun. So, ruefulness is the feeling of being 'full of' regret after a mistake.