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to shame

to shame

170 3.9
To make someone feel guilty or embarrassed to get them to do something
  • verb
  • /ʃeɪm/
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  • Instead, it will shame you more to live with pain and torment.
  • publicly shame
  • attempt to shame
  • shame the family

Did you worry then that this behavior might shame victims from coming forward?

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Examples

  • What's even worse is that other people may shame you for being discerning.

  • You shamed a massive Japanese corporation in open court.

  • Will I ever get to a point where I will not shame my mother?

    Fiction book (1991)
  • Did you worry then that this behavior might shame victims from coming forward?

  • They're going to try to shame you into that.

  • A narcissistic person invariably will shame you or doubt your commitment.

  • You have shamed me.

  • Don't shame me.

  • She tried to shame him into apologizing for his harsh words.

  • The teacher decided to shame the student for not completing his homework by publicly addressing the issue.

Synonyms

to embarrass
vsto shame
642 2.1

Make someone feel awkward or ashamed in front of others

is stronger often used to pressure via those feelings
to humiliate
vsto shame
  • Offensive
414 6.1

Make someone feel very ashamed and foolish, often in front of others

can also occur privately and be used to pressure through those feelings
to pressure
vsto shame
149 4.2

To try to make someone do something

uses feelings of personal blame to push someone rather than direct coercion
to disgrace
vsto shame
62 4.5

To make someone lose respect or honor by doing something shameful

focuses on internal blame and pressure rather than on public status
to humble
vsto shame
58 5.3

To make someone feel less proud or important

focuses on making someone feel bad internally rather than lowering status
to dishonor
vsto shame
  • US
48 5.3

To make someone or something lose respect by bad action

refers more to harming reputation than to directly making someone feel bad
to mortify
vsto shame
22 6.9

To make someone feel very embarrassed or ashamed

is usually less intense and often used to pressure someone
to guilt
vsto shame
18 7.4

To make someone feel ashamed or responsible so they do something

is also used to make someone feel bad without directly aiming to change actions
to hurt pride
vsto shame
5.5

To make someone feel embarrassed and less confident

often aims to make someone feel responsible or to pressure them

Antonyms

2.3

Give someone support and confidence so they try or keep doing something

161 1.0

Words or actions that show admiration for someone

Idioms

crying shame
  • Informal
6 4.6

A very sad situation that makes people feel sorry

Phrasal Verbs

to name and shame
  • Literature
1 6.3

Publicly say which people or groups did something wrong so others will say bad things about them

Compounds

A feeling of guilt that makes you try not to do something wrong

8.6

A spicy tomato drink without alcohol like a Bloody Mary

cone of shame
  • Informal
7.6

A plastic collar put on a pet to stop it from licking or biting wounds

deuced shame
  • Archaic
9.9

A great pity or disappointment

durn shame
  • Informal
9.9

A feeling of regret or disappointment about something unfortunate

A plant whose leaves fold when touched or at night

How Humiliating

to mortify
22 6.9
to humiliate
  • Offensive
414 6.1
to shame
170 3.9
to embarrass
642 2.1

Surface Forms

shame infinitive
shamed past
shamed past participle
shaming present participle
shames third person singular

Etymology

The verb shame comes from the idea of causing that same wish to hide in someone — to 'make someone feel guilty or embarrassed'. So to shame someone is to cause them that painful feeling or to push them by making them feel bad about their actions.