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self-reproach

self-reproach

1 7.1
A feeling of blaming yourself for something you did wrong
  • noun
  • /ˈsɛlf rɪˈproʊtʃ/
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  • He expressed his self-reproach for not being there when his friend needed support.
  • guilt and self-reproach

Examples

  • After failing the exam, she sank into a deep self-reproach, regretting her lack of preparation.

  • Klinger found himself touched by the self-reproach in her voice.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • There was enough guilt and self-reproach for everyone.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • His eyes were screwed up with self-reproach; every bone in his body expressed his honest distress.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • He closed his eyes and pressed his lips together with an expression of self-reproach.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • Yet, the partner also feels a sense of guilt and self-reproach related to his or her diminished understanding and empathy toward a loved one.

    Academic text (2006)
  • Despite his protestations to the contrary, Pete arrived home each night aching with apology and self-reproach.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • "Wetherall's words roused me from my orgy of self-reproach.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • Gurney does not demonize Judy; she has her moments of self-reproach and self-awareness, but not enough to see through what she is doing.

    Academic text (1993)
  • The overwhelming self-reproach he felt after missing the deadline lingered for days.

Synonyms

guilt
vsself-reproach
375 2.4

A feeling of being sorry and responsible for doing something wrong

also includes active self-blame not only feeling responsible
remorse
vsself-reproach
156 4.5

A deep, painful feeling of regret and guilt after doing something wrong

is similar but focuses more on self-blame as well as pain
contrition
vsself-reproach
  • Formal
19 8.4

A deep feeling of regret and sorrow for something you did wrong

is the everyday sense of blaming oneself after doing something wrong
guilty conscience
vsself-reproach
16 4.2

A feeling of being sorry and worried after doing something wrong

includes that conscience feeling but emphasises self-blame as an act too
compunction
vsself-reproach
  • Formal
10 9.6

A feeling of guilt that stops you from doing something bad or follows it

is specifically the act or feeling of blaming oneself after wrongdoing
self-criticism
vsself-reproach
4 5.1

A habit of judging yourself harshly for your actions or abilities

centres specifically on blame or guilt after a particular wrong
guilt feelings
vsself-reproach
1 3.9

Feeling sorry and responsible for doing something wrong

also involves the act of blaming oneself, not only the feeling
self-condemnation
vsself-reproach
1 7.9

To blame yourself for mistakes or failures

is about blame or guilt following a wrong action rather than standards alone
self-reproof
vsself-reproach
8.9

A feeling of blaming yourself for a mistake

includes that criticism but also a felt guilt afterward
self-accusation
vsself-reproach
7.6

Blaming yourself for things you did wrong

is broader, covering blame and inward guilt after wrongdoing
contriteness
vsself-reproach
  • Formal
8.4

A deep feeling of regret and sorrow for doing something wrong

is plain self-blame or guilt after a wrong without punishment focus

Antonyms

Accepting yourself as you are, including your strengths and weaknesses

How Guilty

remorse
156 4.5
self-reproach
1 7.1
guilt
375 2.4
to regret
481 1.2

Surface Forms

self-reproach singular

Morphology

self-reproach = self + reproach (transparent) = self + reproach

Meaning is directly composed from 'self' + 'reproach' (blaming oneself), which learners can derive from the parts.

Etymology

The word self-reproach joins self- ('your own') and reproach ('blame' or 'disapproval'). The root of reproach is like the root prob- in prove and probable, which came from the idea 'to test' or 'to prove', so self-reproach is like giving yourself a harsh judgment, blaming yourself for a mistake.