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self

self

∞ 3.9
A person's idea of who they are
  • noun
  • /sɛlf/
: sí mismo
  • I'm so connected to my inner self, my consciousness.
  • self-esteem
  • self-confidence
  • sense of self

And yet that self talk and that self blame plague her.

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Examples

  • I think your purpose is to share your true self, to be fully seen.

  • My ultimate goal is to do most, if not all, of my self-promotion through Facebook.

    Academic text (2011)
  • Your whole being, your whole self comes into question.

  • You take it for granted, your own self, you do things.

  • I'm going to reveal my true self, who I really am.

  • The various student gains and reported satisfaction with self-management projects have been well documented.

    Academic text (2011)
  • His IS resolves into an acceptance of the self that others have labeled abnormal.

    Academic text (2011)
  • The escaped slaves threw off captivity and created a self-reliant subsistence society using available materials.

    Academic text (2011)
  • Who could blame China's leaders for detecting the evident self-interest in such advice and rejecting it?

    Academic text (2011)
  • At the retreat, she discovered her true self by reflecting on her values and beliefs.

Synonyms

identity
vsself
836 3.2

The qualities that show who a person or group is

is more personal and about inner being rather than group belonging
ego
vsself
360 4.5

Feeling that you are more important than other people

focuses on core identity and inner being rather than pride or importance
individuality
vsself
39 4.6

Qualities that make someone or something different from others

adds a focus on inner being and how the person views themselves
5 4.2

The set of things that make a person different and stay the same over time

emphasizes inner essence and present personal view rather than continuity
selfhood
vsself
1 6.8

Being a person with your own thoughts, feelings, and a sense of who you are

is about inner essence and how a person sees themselves rather than awareness focus
selfness
vsself
1 8.2

A quality of being a unique person with your own identity

stresses core identity and personal perception more than general naturalness

Antonyms

∞ 1.0

Different from the one already mentioned

Idioms

A person or thing that is much weaker and less impressive than before

Compounds

233 3.5

Protecting yourself from being hurt, often by using force

70 4.0

Wanting what is best for you and not caring about others

58 3.3

Being able to stop yourself from acting on strong feelings or wants when it is hard

54 3.6

To try to improve your life alone using books or courses

Trust in your own skills and worth

47 4.6

Added to a word to show something done by the same person

43 5.2

A feeling of being sorry for yourself and thinking only about your problems

A natural desire to protect yourself from harm

32 4.3

The right of a group or nation to choose their government

30 3.7

A feeling that you are a good and important person

25 4.6

Not feeling sure about what you can do or your decisions

The ability to control your actions and feelings even when it is hard

22 3.5

A picture, like a painting or photo, that a person makes of themselves

20 4.1

Being able to do things and meet needs without help from others

To know your own character, feelings, and reasons

Giving up your own comfort and needs to help other people

A way of showing your thoughts and feelings and your personality through art, music, or writing

A process of trying to make yourself better in skills, knowledge, or habits

A group or region that makes and follows its own rules without outside control

11 6.4

A strong painful feeling that you are a bad person or have no value

11 4.3

Caring for your own happiness and well-being

Finding out who you are, your feelings, and why you do things

Behaving in a way that harms yourself or ruins your future

Giving yourself too much pleasure or comfort

An act of causing your own death on purpose

Thinking you are more important than other people

The ability to control your feelings and urges

Actions or things people use to keep themselves safe

8 5.8

Government by a country's own people instead of by a foreign power

Careful thinking about your thoughts, feelings, and actions to understand yourself

Believing something that is not true because it feels better

7 8.7

To admit you did a crime so police can charge you

To be aware of your character, feelings, reasons, and abilities

A habit of judging yourself harshly for your actions or abilities

5 5.7

Choosing not to have something you want for moral, religious, or unselfish reasons

Being very interested only in your own thoughts and feelings and ignoring other people

5 5.6

A person who starts tasks without being told

A feeling of being proud of yourself that stops you seeing your faults

A machine that moves by itself using its own power

To become the best you can be

Accepting yourself as you are, including your strengths and weaknesses

Learning by yourself without a teacher or school

self-hypnosis
  • Specialized
4 6.3

A way to make yourself very relaxed and focused to change thoughts or feelings

4 9.9

Setting yourself on fire on purpose to protest or kill yourself

4 9.9

Trying to make yourself seem more important or powerful than you are

3 4.2

A feeling of satisfaction and confidence in yourself

Looking honestly at your thoughts and feelings to understand yourself better

3 6.8

Doing things to get pleasure for yourself

2 5.8

A feeling that you are a person who deserves respect

self-abuse
  • NSFW
2 9.9

The act of touching your own private parts for sexual pleasure

2 9.9

A person from the Jewish community who criticizes or feels ashamed of their background

2 6.5

A strong wish to do things your own way even when others tell you not to

Making excuses to defend your actions when they are wrong

A person who works for themselves and has no employer

To punish yourself by hitting your body with a whip, often for religious reasons

A clear fact that needs no proof or explanation

2 2.8

A way for customers to pick and pay for items without staff help

A calm, confident control of your feelings and actions in difficult situations

A way of saying who you are and what you can do

1 4.6

A feeling of being happy and satisfied when you use your skills

self-love
  • Archaic
1 7.0

Having too much pride in your own looks or abilities

1 8.7

Touching your own body to feel sexual pleasure

The right to refuse to answer questions that could make you look guilty in court

1 5.3

Care for your own needs and interests

1 6.4

The ability of a person, group, or cell to make new parts and stay active

1 9.9

The act of killing yourself

self-organization
  • Specialized
1 6.8

Small parts act together and make a regular pattern like birds in a flock without a single leader

Making yourself suffer because you feel guilty

A situation when a person's words or beliefs say opposite things

People forming their own group like a union without outside leaders

1 7.4

Causing yourself pain by thinking a lot about bad things

To speak up confidently and defend your own opinions or rights

1 6.0

Joking about your mistakes to show you do not take yourself too seriously

How Developed

self
∞ 3.9
unself
  • Specialized
1 9.9

Surface Forms

self singular
selves plural

Etymology

Self comes from an old English word that meant 'one's own' or 'by oneself'. So self still means the person you are, and you can see the same idea in words like selfish and selfie, which are about 'your own' actions or a picture of yourself.