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self-restraint

self-restraint

7 4.6
The ability to control your feelings and urges
  • noun
  • /ˌsɛlf rɪˈstreɪnt/
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  • He demonstrated remarkable self-restraint by not reacting to the criticism.
  • exercise self-restraint
  • foster self-restraint
  • encourage self-restraint

The bourgeois values of prudence and self restraint, the industrious revolution.

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Examples

  • The other tales and stories preach reasonable self-restraint, limited consumption, and modest wants.

    Academic text (1991)
  • We could all learn the art of self-restraint, couldn't we, Alfred?

  • But let the record show, I showed self-restraint.

  • How, then, can the law work to support and encourage such self-restraint?

    Academic text (2016)
  • JAMIE: Show a bit of self restraint.

  • Their behavior stems from a lack of self-restraint, and they should not escape punishment.

    Academic text (2003)
  • If human beings do so, it must be an act of responsibility, of voluntary self-restraint.

    Academic text (1997)
  • She struck me as someone capable of tremendous self-restraint.

  • Our primary purpose is to educate and inform parents about this alarming trend, as well as to ask the industry to exercise self-restraint.

  • In Asia, where Buddhism and Hinduism dominate, people believe in tolerance and self-restraint.

    Academic text (2001)

Synonyms

restraint
vsself-restraint
122 4.8

The ability to control your feelings and actions

is the general inward ability to hold back desires and impulses
self-control
vsself-restraint
53 3.3

Being able to stop yourself from acting on strong feelings or wants when it is hard

expresses the same personal control over impulses and feelings
moderation
vsself-restraint
47 3.5

Keeping actions or feelings within reasonable limits

is more narrowly about controlling impulses rather than broad balanced conduct
inhibition
vsself-restraint
29 6.1

Holding back your feelings or actions around other people

is more about active personal choice rather than mere passive withholding
self-discipline
vsself-restraint
17 4.4

The ability to control your actions and feelings even when it is hard

is similar but focuses more on habitual training and long term control
temperance
vsself-restraint
5 7.1

Control of eating, drinking, and behavior to avoid excess

is focused on internal impulse control rather than only moderating consumption
self-possession
vsself-restraint
1 6.7

A calm, confident control of your feelings and actions in difficult situations

is the same control but without the calm, confident emphasis
continence
vsself-restraint
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1 9.9

A person chooses not to have sex to show self-control

is the wider personal control across emotions, not limited to sexual matters
repressiveness
vsself-restraint
1 8.1

A tendency to keep feelings or desires inside

is chosen control rather than an ongoing habit of suppression
continency
vsself-restraint
8.1

Being able to control your actions, feelings, or desires in hard situations

is a broader general term for personal control in many situations
self-command
vsself-restraint
7.0

Ability to stay calm and control your actions and feelings

is similar but lacks the strong emphasis on determined willpower
temperateness
vsself-restraint
7.5

A calm way of controlling actions and feelings to avoid too much

is the personal ability to hold back impulses rather than general balance

Antonyms

24 6.0

A small pleasure you allow yourself, often without much self-control

How Restrained

discipline
173 3.6
self-control
53 3.3
self-restraint
7 4.6

Surface Forms

Morphology

self-restraint = self + restraint (transparent) = self + restraint

The compound meaning is directly derived from 'self' (oneself) + 'restraint' (control), so learners who know both parts can infer the meaning.

Etymology

Self-restraint combines self ('your own person') and restraint ('holding back' or 'control'), and it uses the same idea as the word restrain ('hold back'). So, think of it as 'holding yourself back', which is why self-restraint means the ability to control your feelings or actions.