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restraint

restraint

122 4.8
The ability to control your feelings and actions
  • noun
  • /rɪˈstreɪnt/
translation icon : autocontrol
  • She exercised restraint when confronted with provocation, choosing to stay calm instead of reacting angrily.
  • self-restraint
  • show restraint
  • exercise restraint

So I wasn't taught restraint and Pasha households tend to teach that.

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Examples

  • Teach honor, restraint, courage, and the value of truth.

  • We need leaders who show the restraint not to cross lines they shouldn't cross.

  • I probably have less restraint than some others.

  • I want to say it, but do I have the restraint to not say it in this book and leave it for this book?

  • But all the more reason to be proud of yourself for the restraint you showed.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • And I think restraint is the hardest thing, right?

  • I think if we exercise patience, restraint, allow our men and women up in New York to do their job I think we'll be effective.

  • As she speaks with great emotion and restraint, she seems to be talking directly to him.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • Our policy has been one of patience and restraint as benefits a peaceful and powerful nation which leads a worldwide alliance.

  • Students also noted the restraint exercised by adults in not admonishing the children.

    Academic text (2008)

Synonyms

control
vsrestraint
2.8

Ability to direct your body or its parts so they move as you want

is narrower, about personal emotional and impulse management
discipline
vsrestraint
165 3.5

Ability to control your actions and follow rules

focuses on internal impulse control rather than rule-based behaviour
self-control
vsrestraint
53 3.3

Being able to stop yourself from acting on strong feelings or wants when it is hard

is used more for social and conduct control specifically
moderation
vsrestraint
47 3.5

Keeping actions or feelings within reasonable limits

is focused on impulse control in social conduct rather than general limits
willpower
vsrestraint
45 4.3

The power to control your actions, feelings, and urges when things are hard

describes steadier everyday control rather than sudden force of will
inhibition
vsrestraint
29 6.1

Holding back your feelings or actions around other people

is active management of impulses rather than mere suppression
self-discipline
vsrestraint
17 4.4

The ability to control your actions and feelings even when it is hard

highlights momentary emotion control rather than long training
reserve
vsrestraint
9 5.2

A quiet way of acting that shows little emotion

focuses on deliberate internal control of impulses in social settings
self-restraint
vsrestraint
7 4.6

The ability to control your feelings and urges

is the general term for control in social or personal conduct
self-possession
vsrestraint
1 6.7

A calm, confident control of your feelings and actions in difficult situations

is general emotional control including impulse management without calm focus
repressiveness
vsrestraint
1 8.1

A tendency to keep feelings or desires inside

describes calm control rather than forcefully pushing emotions away
self-command
vsrestraint
7.0

Ability to stay calm and control your actions and feelings

is about general emotion control without stressing resolve
continency
vsrestraint
8.1

Being able to control your actions, feelings, or desires in hard situations

is broader, covering public behaviour and private situations

Antonyms

108 3.3

An amount more than needed or allowed

A habit of acting quickly without thinking about the results

A way of behaving without control or limits

Compounds

The ability to control your feelings and urges

restraint of trade
  • Specialized
1 7.0

A rule or action that stops free competition between businesses

head restraint
  • Specialized
1 4.1

A padded support on top of a car seat that holds the head and reduces neck injury in a crash

An agreement between companies that limits competition, often by fixing prices, and is illegal under US law

How Restrained

self-control
53 3.3
restraint
122 4.8
moderation
47 3.5

Surface Forms

restraint singular
restraints plural

Morphology

restraint = restrain (semi-transparent) = restrain + t

The noun is clearly connected to the verb 'restrain', but the ending '-t' is not a productive noun pattern for most learners and the abstract quality sense is somewhat lexicalized.

Etymology

Restraint comes from the parts re- 'back' and strain 'to pull tight', the same root as string, so think of pulling your feelings back on a rope; that's why it means control over your emotions or urges.