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self-love

self-love

1 7.0
Having too much pride in your own looks or abilities
  • noun
  • /ˈsɛlfˌlʌv/
  • Archaic
translation icon : narcisismo
  • Compassion, as Rousseau presents it, is an emanation of that natural human self-love, which attests to the natural goodness of man.

The myth is much more complicated than that, and so too is this concept of narcissistic self love.

Examples

  • It's so self love and go see a psychiatrist.

  • To love one another as God has loved, we must overcome our natural human self-love.

    Academic text (1997)
  • So narcissism is self love without love for others.

  • Plato says for reasons of self love, we should not be selfish because we're, we all want to be as good as we can.

  • There are many people out there who still use the word narcissism totally wrong to mean self love, when in fact it's literally the opposite.

  • There are many people out there who still use the word narcissism totally wrong to mean self love, when in fact it's literally the opposite.

  • So narcissism, self love is not a bad thing, but what happens is as you get older, if you go too deep into it, it becomes a problem.

  • Her self-love was evident in how she constantly sought compliments about her appearance.

  • Celebrating her achievements is a form of self-love that helps boost her confidence.

  • Many people struggle with balancing self-love and the desire to be humble.

Synonyms

vanity
vsself-love
56 5.6

Extreme pride in how you look or what you can do

is a broader term for excessive pride in abilities or appearance
narcissism
vsself-love
34 8.1

Being too interested in yourself and your looks or skills

expresses excessive pride and admiration rather than mere interest
conceit
vsself-love
10 8.0

Too much pride in yourself and your abilities

is about pride and admiration rather than a strong belief of superiority
self-satisfaction
vsself-love
3 4.8

A feeling of being proud of yourself that stops you seeing your faults

is excessive admiration and pride rather than mere pleasure in achievements
narcissistic personality
vsself-love
  • Specialized
3 8.2

Someone who loves themselves too much and does not care about others' feelings

is about excessive pride and admiration without implying a clinical personality type
egomania
vsself-love
1 9.1

A very strong focus on yourself and your needs

is about prideful admiration rather than an obsessive mental preoccupation
vainglory
vsself-love
  • Literature
1 9.9

Too much pride in your successes or looks that makes you show off

is inward excessive admiration rather than boastful public showing
pridefulness
vsself-love
1 7.4

Feeling that you are much better than other people

is excess pride specifically in abilities or appearance rather than general worth
self-praise
vsself-love
1 6.8

Talking about your good qualities to show off to others

is an internal excessive admiration rather than the outward act of boasting
amour propre
vsself-love
  • Jargon
1 9.9

A feeling that you are important and should be treated with respect, often making you proud or easily hurt

can imply excessive pride or admiration but is often neutral self respect
narcism
vsself-love
  • US
8.2

Too much love of yourself that makes you ignore other people

is more about pride and admiration rather than exclusion of others
vainness
vsself-love
6.9

Being too proud of your appearance or abilities

is about excessive admiration and regard rather than only a named quality
conceitedness
vsself-love
7.4

Thinking you are much better or more important than other people

is excessive admiration in oneself but not only about public display
autolatry
vsself-love
  • Formal
9.9

Praising yourself too much

is excessive pride and admiration but not necessarily worshipful in nature
self-worship
vsself-love
8.6

Too much love and praise for yourself that ignores others

is about pride and admiration rather than the action of worship itself
idiolatry
vsself-love
  • Formal
9.9

To admire yourself too much

expresses excessive pride and admiration without insisting on religious style worship
self-complacency
vsself-love
8.9

A feeling of being too satisfied with yourself and not noticing problems

is about pride and admiration rather than passive satisfaction or unawareness

Antonyms

27 3.5

Not being proud or bragging about your abilities

A feeling that you are not worth much

How Self-Regarding

narcissism
34 8.1
egotism
7 6.1
conceit
10 8.0
self-love
  • Archaic
1 7.0
self-praise
1 6.8
self-regard
2 5.8

Surface Forms

self-love singular
self-loves plural

Morphology

self-love = self + love (semi-transparent) = self + love

Form is clearly 'self' + 'love', but the sense 'excessive pride' is an evaluative extension that learners may not infer from the neutral compound.

Etymology

Self-love is made of self and love, but it has long also been used to mean 'too much pride in yourself'. So, self-love can also mean an excessive admiration of your own abilities or appearance when it goes too far.