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desolate

desolate

12 6.7
Feeling very unhappy and alone after a loss
  • adjective
  • /ˈdɛsəlɪt/
: desolado
  • After her friend moved away, she felt desolate and longed for companionship.
  • feel desolate
  • look desolate
  • desolate and lonely

Examples

  • My failure to solve it left me desolate.

  • Louisa and I have been quite desolate without you, haven't we?

  • "I am best as I am, though the hours alone are sometimes pretty desolate."

    Academic text (1996)
  • This book really speaks to that lonely, desolate place that all of us have experienced until we break free.

  • How did I come to this high, desolate place where there is nothing but loneliness?

  • I'm lonely in this desolate old palace.

  • Unaccountably, the idea that I might not see him again made me feel desolate.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • Her voice has a sound he's never heard from her, a desolate despair.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • I thought that if I don't acknowledge what I should acknowledge, I would keep leading a desolate and difficult life.

  • So cold, so desolate.

Synonyms

depressed
vsdesolate
445 3.5

Feeling very sad and without hope

is more about intense lonely grief after abandonment rather than low mood
dismal
vsdesolate
58 4.5

Making you feel sad and hopeless

is about deep lonely abandonment and sorrow rather than caused gloom
dreary
vsdesolate
44 3.8

A gloomy, boring time that makes you feel sad or tired

is personal deep lonely sorrow from loss rather than general dullness
melancholy
vsdesolate
32 5.9

Feeling or showing deep sadness

is more strongly lonely and tied to loss than a gloomy mood
hopeless
vsdesolate
30 2.5

Feeling no hope about a situation or the future

is more about deep loneliness and abandonment rather than only lack of hope
glum
vsdesolate
22 4.1

Looking or feeling sad and quiet

is stronger deep loneliness and grief not just quiet unhappiness
bereft
vsdesolate
  • Literature
17 7.5

Feeling very sad and alone because someone you love or something important is missing

is more utterly alone and devastated after being abandoned
despondent
vsdesolate
16 7.7

Feeling very sad and without hope about the future

is more about being abandoned and deeply alone rather than only lack of hope
grief-stricken
vsdesolate
13 6.7

Very sad and shocked after losing someone close

is loneliness combined with long sorrow often from abandonment
dejected
vsdesolate
10 4.5

Feeling very sad and not hopeful

is deeper lonely sorrow related to loss rather than just temporary low mood
friendless
vsdesolate
10 5.3

Not having anyone to talk to or support you

is deeper sorrow tied to loss rather than only social exclusion
abject
vsdesolate
  • Formal
9 7.7

Showing or feeling complete defeat and no hope

is more about loneliness after being left rather than just defeat
dispirited
vsdesolate
7 5.4

Feeling sad and without hope

is more lonely sorrow tied to loss rather than only low energy or mood
disconsolate
vsdesolate
  • Literature
3 8.2

Very sad and not able to be comforted

is a deep lonely state often tied to loss or abandonment
downhearted
vsdesolate
2 4.1

Feeling sad and without much hope

is deeper lonely pain from loss rather than mild discouragement
2 7.5

To have a deep sadness and no meaning inside you

is deeper lonely sorrow tied to loss rather than inner emptiness feeling
feeling dead inside
vsdesolate
  • Informal
1 9.9

Being numb and empty inside after loss or long sadness

is active painful loneliness and longing rather than numb emotional emptiness

Antonyms

∞ 1.0

Feeling pleased and content

17 1.0

A feeling of being happy with what you have

How Lonely

inconsolable
10 7.2
bereft
  • Literature
17 7.5
desolate
12 6.7
lonely
829 1.0
isolated
88 3.8
alone
∞ 1.0

Surface Forms

desolate positive

Morphology

desolate = de + solate

The adjectival sense 'feeling lonely or despondent' is a figurative extension of physical emptiness and is not directly inferable from the morphemes by most learners.

Etymology

Desolate comes from the Latin word solus ('alone'), the same idea you see in solo and sole, so it means being 'all alone'. That's why if you feel desolate you feel very lonely and without comfort.