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disconsolate

disconsolate

2 8.2
Very sad and not able to be comforted
  • adjective
  • /ˌdɪsˈkɒnsəleɪt/
  • Literature
translation icon : desconsolado
  • The loss of her beloved pet left her feeling disconsolate for weeks.
  • look disconsolate
  • sound disconsolate
  • leave disconsolate

Examples

  • I went home and stood vigil with the kids, who were disconsolate.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • The sad couple bury their only beloved son and return to their lives, humbled and disconsolate.

  • Vera was disconsolate when Tom told her about his intended trip to Canada.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • Even as the guests filed out, she sat disconsolate in her chair and wept.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • Selena is left alone, disconsolate, framed in the window.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • "Nothing like this has ever happened in the history of this country," Kip said, sounding disconsolate.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • At the door of the adjacent hut, a girl-soldier sat disconsolate, her eyes unfocused.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • Dazzle was so mired in his own disconsolate reflections that he didn't even notice he was no longer alone.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • After hearing the bad news, she felt utterly disconsolate and couldn’t stop crying.

  • He sat disconsolate on the bench, staring at the ground with a heavy heart.

Synonyms

sad
vsdisconsolate
1.0

Feeling unhappy or upset because of something

is a stronger uncomforted form of basic sorrow
unhappy
vsdisconsolate
463 1.0

Feeling sad or not pleased about something

is much more intense and cannot be comforted than simple unhappiness
depressed
vsdisconsolate
441 3.5

Feeling very sad and without hope

is extremely sad and unable to be comforted not just low mood
distraught
vsdisconsolate
86 7.2

Being very upset and worried so you cannot think clearly

is extremely sad and cannot be comforted rather than anxious or confused
dismal
vsdisconsolate
62 4.5

Making you feel sad and hopeless

is a personal state of extreme sadness and cannot be comforted not a cause
distressed
vsdisconsolate
35 2.9

Feeling very upset, worried, or hurt

is intensely sad and cannot be comforted rather than stressed or physically hurt
glum
vsdisconsolate
23 4.1

Looking or feeling sad and quiet

is extremely sad and cannot be comforted rather than quietly gloomy
bereft
vsdisconsolate
  • Literature
19 7.5

Feeling very sad and alone because someone you love or something important is missing

is extremely sad and cannot be comforted rather than focusing on loss alone
despondent
vsdisconsolate
18 7.7

Feeling very sad and without hope about the future

is deeply unhappy and unable to be comforted rather than only losing hope
sorrowful
vsdisconsolate
14 3.6

Feeling very sad because of loss or disappointment

is more intense and cannot be comforted rather than only deeply sad
desolate
vsdisconsolate
11 6.7

Feeling very unhappy and alone after a loss

is deeply unhappy and cannot be comforted not only lonely from loss
inconsolable
vsdisconsolate
10 7.2

Very sad and not able to be comforted

is extremely sad and unable to be comforted but may be less persistent
dejected
vsdisconsolate
5 4.5

Feeling very sad and not hopeful

is extremely sad and unable to be comforted rather than mildly dispirited
disheartened
vsdisconsolate
5 4.2

Feeling less hopeful and confident after a disappointment

is extremely sad and cannot be comforted rather than only discouraged
dispirited
vsdisconsolate
5 5.4

Feeling sad and without hope

is deeply unhappy and cannot be comforted rather than simply lacking enthusiasm
crestfallen
vsdisconsolate
5 7.5

Sad and disappointed because what you hoped for did not happen

is extremely sad and cannot be comforted rather than sad from a failed expectation
downhearted
vsdisconsolate
1 4.1

Feeling sad and without much hope

is extremely sad and unable to be comforted rather than mildly low in spirits
unconsoled
vsdisconsolate
1 7.5

Not comforted after feeling sad or disappointed

is extremely sad and cannot be comforted rather than only being left uncomforted
unconsolable
vsdisconsolate
8.0

Extremely sad and not able to be comforted

is the same in meaning but is an alternative form
as miserable as a wet hen
vsdisconsolate
  • Informal
9.9

Very sad and upset, often after something bad happens

is a neutral term for extreme sadness rather than an idiom

Antonyms

111 1.0

Happy in a way you show with a smile or friendly actions

1 2.1

Feeling less upset because someone is kind to you

How Sad

disconsolate
  • Literature
2 8.2
sorrowful
14 3.6
sad
1.0
down
  • Informal
24 6.7

Surface Forms

disconsolate positive

Morphology

disconsolate = console (opaque) = dis + consol + ate

The prefix 'dis-' obscures the meaning, making it difficult for learners to derive the meaning from 'console'.

Etymology

Disconsolate comes from the prefix dis- meaning 'not' and console meaning 'to comfort'. So, disconsolate literally means 'not able to be comforted', which is why we use it for someone who is extremely sad and cannot be cheered up.