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contrary

contrary

14 5.4
Deliberately refusing to do what others want
  • adjective
  • /ˈkɒntrəri/
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  • When asked to clean her room, her contrary nature led her to make a mess instead.
  • act in a contrary way

Now why would she be contrary?

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Examples

  • His nature was so contrary that I hoped I might make him talk by pretending to be indifferent.

  • Why must you remain so exasperatingly contrary?

  • - You know, contrary to what you think, Charles, these are all good kids.

  • My God, you love to be contrary.

  • I will challenge others when they engage in behavior contrary to these values.

    Academic text (2016)
  • And we all love you for your contrary opinions, Princess.

  • Contrary as she is, there's bound to be a reason for it.

  • You're always so wonderfully contrary.

  • His behavior was deliberately contrary, as he often refused to follow even simple instructions.

  • She was known for her contrary attitude, always opposing group decisions just for the sake of it.

Synonyms

hostile
vscontrary
194 4.6

Showing strong dislike or opposition

is about deliberate noncooperation without implying personal dislike
perverse
vscontrary
78 7.9

Refusing to do what is right or expected on purpose

is centered on opposing guidance without necessarily acting unreasonably
wayward
vscontrary
33 7.5

Hard to control because a person behaves badly or strangely

is focused on willful uncooperativeness rather than merely unpredictable behavior
antagonistic
vscontrary
16 6.8

Acting in a hostile way toward someone or something

is more about refusing cooperation without necessarily feeling hostility
obstinate
vscontrary
16 7.5

Refusing to change your opinion or behavior even when others try to persuade you

is about active resistance to guidance rather than mere stubborn opinion
insubordinate
vscontrary
12 8.1

Refusing to follow orders or respect someone in charge

is less about formal orders and more about resisting guidance or discipline
recalcitrant
vscontrary
  • Formal
11 8.1

Not willing to follow rules or accept control

is about deliberate refusal to follow guidance or discipline
disobedient
vscontrary
11 4.0

Refuses to obey rules or people in charge

is broader, describing deliberate uncooperativeness toward guidance rather than only rules
oppositional
vscontrary
5 6.6

Showing disagreement or resistance to someone with power

is specifically about being uncooperative with guidance and discipline
refractory
vscontrary
  • Specialized
1 8.7

Hard to control or manage because of stubborn behaviour

is focused on deliberate uncooperativeness toward guidance and discipline
bolshie
vscontrary
  • Offensive
1 9.9

Unwilling to cooperate and often challenging authority

is the general deliberate resistance to guidance and discipline in behavior
opposed
vscontrary
1 3.5

Against something or someone in opinion and action

is more about refusing guidance or discipline than general disagreement
negativistic
vscontrary
  • Specialized
9.0

Often refuses to do what others ask

is similar but emphasizes deliberate uncooperativeness toward discipline
contrarious
vscontrary
  • Literature
9.9

Often disagreeing with others on purpose to be difficult

is defined by deliberate resistance to guidance and discipline rather than mere contradiction
dissentient
vscontrary
  • Formal
9.8

Disagreeing with the majority or with official opinion

is about private or personal refusal of guidance rather than public dissent
dissentious
vscontrary
  • Archaic
9.9

Likely to disagree with most people and start arguments

is centered on resisting guidance and discipline rather than mainly opposing opinions
nonadherent
vscontrary
  • Specialized
7.8

Not following a required treatment, rule, or standard

is about deliberate uncooperativeness in behavior and discipline broadly

Antonyms

119 3.5

Willing to work with other people to reach a shared goal

31 5.1

Willing to follow rules or do what other people want

Idioms

To say the opposite to correct a wrong idea

In a way that shows the opposite is true

Compounds

contrary to fact
  • Specialized
1 7.7

Describing an imagined situation that is not true

How Uncooperative

recalcitrant
  • Formal
11 8.1
obstinate
16 7.5
contrary
14 5.4
unruly
41 4.3
difficult
386 2.1

Surface Forms

contrary positive

Etymology

Contrary comes from the Latin root contra meaning 'against', so a person who is contrary is one who acts 'against' advice or the wishes of others. That is why a contrary mood makes someone stubborn or uncooperative.