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coaxing

coaxing

5 4.4
Gentle persuasion using praise or kind words to get someone to do something
  • noun
  • /ˈkoʊksɪŋ/
translation icon : persuasión suave
  • After a month of subtle hints and gentle coaxing, I finally persuaded Deck to take a quick road trip to Atlanta.
  • a little coaxing
  • much coaxing
  • gentle coaxing

I didn't think people are so invested in misery that it'll take a lot of coaxing.

Examples

  • It just might need a bit of coaxing.

  • Just takes a little coaxing, huh, first prize?

  • With a little coaxing, maybe we can get her up here to sing.

  • No amount of coaxing could bring it to life.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • I am sure that with a little bit of coaxing, I can get her into a pair pretty easily, though.

    Blog text (34)
  • He's gonna need a lot of coaxing to get that information out of him.

  • No amount of coaxing will sway her.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • A little coaxing, and they'd show you the things they'd brought back.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • Finally, after much coaxing and cursing at the waves, we go back to the buoy where we started and drift for a while.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • After some coaxing, she finally agreed to share her story.

Synonyms

flattery
vscoaxing
37 4.7

Praise people give without meaning it to get something from someone

is more focused on gentle influence mixed with friendly praise
sweet talk
vscoaxing
  • Informal
3 4.3

Flattering words that try to persuade someone but are not sincere

is usually gentler and less openly insincere in tone
blarney
vscoaxing
3 8.7

Talk that flatters to gain favor or advantage

is less about deception and more about mild persuasive praise
blandishment
vscoaxing
  • Formal
2 9.8

A friendly compliment meant to persuade someone to do something

leans more toward complimenting to secure personal favor
wheedling
vscoaxing
1 7.8

Getting someone to do something by saying nice things and asking again and again

relies more specifically on flattering language to gain favor
smarm
vscoaxing
  • Informal
1 9.7

Praise that is too much and not sincere to make someone like you

is gentler and less openly oily or unpleasant in tone
gentle persuasion
vscoaxing
1 3.9

To convince someone with kind words or calm actions

is more about using praise to win someone's favor
cajolery
vscoaxing
1 8.4

Gentle praise and kind words used to get someone to do something

adds a clearer aim of flattering someone to get their approval
soft soap
vscoaxing
  • Informal
1 7.6

Insincere praise used to try to influence someone

is softer, stressing gentle praise rather than overt exaggeration
prompting
vscoaxing
1 3.8

Encouraging someone to do something by suggesting it

uses praise or flattery rather than simple suggestion to influence
ingratiation
vscoaxing
9.1

Trying to make someone like you by saying nice things or doing favors

is milder and often focuses on gentle influence rather than strategy

Antonyms

Making someone less willing to do something by saying you do not like it

How Persuasive

coercion
  • Offensive
56 6.9
to pressure
149 4.2
coaxing
5 4.4
encouragement
89 1.7
suggestion
759 1.4

Surface Forms

coaxing singular
coaxings plural

Morphology

coaxing = coax (transparent) = coax + ing

A direct nominalization/gerund from the verb 'coax'; the meaning 'gentle persuasion' is predictable from the base verb.

Etymology

Coaxing comes from the older verb coax, first used in the 1700s to mean 'to flatter or wheedle'. A helpful way to remember it is to think of the soft sound coo—like soothing a baby—so coaxing is gentle, quiet persuasion.