soft soap
- noun
- /sɔft soʊp/
- Informal
- He tried to win their approval with plenty of soft soap but failed to convince them.
Examples
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Don't believe the soft soap!
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Don't fall for her soft soap; she's only being nice because she wants something.
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The politician's speech was filled with soft soap, but his promises rang hollow.
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He used a lot of soft soap to win her over.
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The politician's speech was filled with soft soap to win over the crowd.
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You don't need to use soft soap; just be honest about your intentions.
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I could see through his soft soap; he was just trying to get my vote.
Synonyms
Too much praise that is not honest and meant to get approval
Gentle persuasion using praise or kind words to get someone to do something
Flattering words that try to persuade someone but are not sincere
Talk that flatters to gain favor or advantage
Claims that exaggerate product benefits and are not meant literally
Getting someone to do something by saying nice things and asking again and again
Gentle praise and kind words used to get someone to do something
Too much praise that tries to make people like you
How Flattering
Surface Forms
Morphology
soft + soap
The sense 'insincere flattery' is not a straightforward combination of 'soft' (not harsh) and the literal cleaning substance 'soap'; there is no direct compositional logic that yields the metaphorical meaning. This is a lexicalized metaphor (compare the verb 'to soft-soap') and would not be predictable to an average B1 learner who knows the constituent words, so it is opaque.
Etymology
Soft soap may come from the image of rubbing soft oily soap to make a surface smooth, like 'softening' someone with gentle words. That's why soft soap means 'fake praise' used 'to persuade someone'.