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ingratiation

ingratiation

9.1
Trying to make someone like you by saying nice things or doing favors
  • noun
  • /ɪnˌɡreɪʃiˈeɪʃən/
translation icon : adulación
  • And another way people do it is through ingratiation, sort of displaying warmth or friendliness.

And another way people do it is through ingratiation, sort of displaying warmth or friendliness.

Examples

  • She used ingratiation to earn the approval of her new teacher by complimenting her lessons.

  • If you use flattery to corrupt a man, there is no excuse for it, but if you apply ingratiation as a way to make political friends, it is acceptable.

    Academic text (2012)
  • They'd apparently been hard on the boy, which maybe accounted for what Buck found most irritating about him: a kind of dog-like ingratiation.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • It would be simplistic to regard such an activity as mere ingratiation, and as sycophants those who practiced it.

    Academic text (1994)
  • His constant ingratiation with the boss made him unpopular among his colleagues.

  • His ingratiation with the committee members helped him secure the promotion he wanted.

Synonyms

flattery
vsingratiation
37 4.7

Praise people give without meaning it to get something from someone

is the broader act of seeking approval through deliberate behavior rather than just praise
adulation
vsingratiation
  • Formal
18 8.4

Too much praise that is not honest and meant to get approval

is aiming to gain approval by deliberate pleasing acts rather than extreme praise
coaxing
vsingratiation
5 4.4

Gentle persuasion using praise or kind words to get someone to do something

aims more broadly at building approval through deliberate pleasing acts
wheedling
vsingratiation
1 7.8

Getting someone to do something by saying nice things and asking again and again

focuses on gaining approval through deliberate pleasing behavior rather than pushy persistence
cajolery
vsingratiation
1 8.4

Gentle praise and kind words used to get someone to do something

aims to gain lasting approval rather than just immediate agreement
insinuation
vsingratiation
1 7.7

A way of getting close to someone by praise or tricks

uses open deliberate acts to win favor rather than indirect tactics

Antonyms

30 7.4

Feeling of being alone and separate from other people

4 6.2

Lack of public support or approval

How Ingratiating

sycophancy
  • Formal
1 9.5
ingratiation
9.1
flattery
37 4.7

Surface Forms

ingratiation singular
ingratiations plural

Morphology

ingratiation = ingratiate (semi-transparent) = in + grate + i + ation

The transformation from 'ingratiate' to 'ingratiation' is clear, but the root 'grate' is not commonly recognized in this context.

Etymology

Ingratiation comes from Latin parts in- meaning 'in' and gratia meaning 'favor' or 'thanks', and it shares its root with grateful. So ingratiation is about trying to get into someone's 'favor' by pleasing or flattering them.