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talking to

talking to

1 4.2
A serious scolding from someone like a parent or boss
  • noun
  • /ˈtɔːkɪŋ tu/
  • Informal
translation icon : reprimenda
  • Well, anyway, I'll give him a good talking to.

Examples

  • He felt that, if nothing else, the driver needed to have a good talking to.

    Blog text (19)
  • Things have taken a turn for the better since I realized I had dropped the astrological ball and gave myself a stern talking to.

    Blog text (19)
  • Sometimes I give them a good talking to, and they think it over and change their minds.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • So you take him out to the shed, give him a talking to.

  • After his reckless behavior, the teacher decided it was time for a stern talking to during lunch.

  • The manager gave the employee a serious talking to for repeatedly missing deadlines.

  • She received a harsh talking to when her parents found out about her late-night escapades.

Synonyms

speech
vstalking to
  • Informal
184 4.8

A long talk that tells someone they did wrong

is an occasion of reprimand that is shorter and less formal
lecture
vstalking to
68 4.1

A long serious talk that warns or scolds someone about what they did

is a shorter, more direct reprimand rather than an extended talk
speaking to
vstalking to
  • Informal
62 7.0

A short talk telling someone they did something wrong

is sterner and more serious in tone
scolding
vstalking to
7 3.3

A strong angry talk that tells someone they did something wrong

is a firm reprimand focused on correcting behavior rather than anger
admonishment
vstalking to
4 7.0

A firm warning that tells someone to change their behavior

is sterner and more forceful than a corrective warning
talking-to
vstalking to
  • Informal
3 5.8

A firm telling someone they did something wrong

is the same idea but often shown with hyphenated writing
berating
vstalking to
1 6.3

A strong angry talk that tells someone they did something wrong

is a firm reprimand rather than a personal attack
dressing-down
vstalking to
  • Informal
1 7.7

A strong angry talk that tells someone they did something wrong

is a general stern reproach not limited to authority figures
what for
vstalking to
  • Informal
1 8.8

A strong scolding you get when someone is angry with you

is a stern correction more focused on discipline than disapproval

Antonyms

328 1.3

To give something to someone to thank them for doing something good

161 1.0

Words or actions that show admiration for someone

How Stern

berating
1 6.3
dressing down
  • Informal
1 6.1
scolding
7 3.3
reprimand
  • Formal
24 6.1
rebuke
22 6.8
talking to
  • Informal
1 4.2
warning
1.0

Surface Forms

talking to singular
talking tos plural

Morphology

talking + to

The components 'talking' (speaking) and 'to' (directed at someone) make it partly predictable that this refers to being spoken to or addressed. However, the specific conventionalized sense 'a stern reprimand' is a colloquial extension that is not fully derivable from the parts, so learners who know the words may guess directed speech but not reliably infer the scolding meaning.

Etymology

Talking to comes from the clear picture of someone talking directly to another person in a firm, serious way. That's why it now means 'a stern scolding' or 'being told off'.