speaking to
- noun
- Informal
- She received a firm speaking to for being late to class too many times.
Examples
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The teacher gave the student a speaking to after he was caught cheating on the test.
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After the incident, he knew he was due for a speaking to from his supervisor.
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"Do you want to go this year?" she said, speaking to me over her shoulder.
Fiction book (1990) -
Would you please do me the courtesy of looking at me when I'm speaking to you?
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At dinner that night, I realized my parents weren't speaking to each other.
Fiction book (2000) -
Now, the first time I spoke to Quincy, I was getting reprimanded.
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Mr McCall, are you not speaking to me because you're mad at me?
Synonyms
A long talk that tells someone they did wrong
A strong angry talk that tells someone they did something wrong
A firm telling someone they did something wrong
A serious scolding from someone like a parent or boss
Antonyms
How Severe
Surface Forms
Morphology
speaking + to
The noun sense 'a reprimand' is derivable from the idea of someone 'speaking to' another in order to rebuke them, so there is a clear relation to the constituents. However the nominalized, idiomatic use ('a speaking-to'/'a talking-to') relies on a pragmatically specialized sense of 'speak to' (and is informal/British), which is not fully predictable for a B1 learner who only knows the literal meanings of 'speaking' and 'to'.
Etymology
Speaking to comes from the simple image of someone speaking to you — a parent, teacher, or boss giving a serious talk to correct your behaviour. So, the phrase came to mean 'a reprimand' or 'a telling-off'.