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talking-to

talking-to

3 5.8
A firm telling someone they did something wrong
  • noun
  • /ˈtɔːkɪŋ tuː/
  • Informal
translation icon : reprimenda
  • After his poor behavior at the party, his parents gave him a firm talking-to about respecting others.
  • a good talking-to
  • needs a talking-to

That was a period in my life where I got now I just had to sit and take my talking to.

Examples

  • (Don't worry, I gave her a good talking-to about it.)

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  • They also gave me a stern talking-to.

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  • Gave me a right talking to the other night.

  • I'd like to talk to them.

  • I gave him a talking-to.

  • They'll give him a talking-to.

  • I really should give that pup a talking-to.

  • "Zev, you have to give him a talking-to," she said as they drove home.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • You know, the individuals that I interviewed after giving them a severe talking-to gave me a very nice description of somebody that looks exactly like you.

  • The next day, the teacher gave us a pretty stern talking-to about how she just answered a question about what an orgasm is, and the thing about devoting 15 minutes of class time to orgasms was a lie we shouldn't have told, because now all the parents were upset with her.

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Synonyms

speaking to
vstalking-to
  • Informal
62 7.0

A short talk telling someone they did something wrong

focuses on the speaker using firm words about behavior
scolding
vstalking-to
7 3.3

A strong angry talk that tells someone they did something wrong

involves firm speech but not necessarily anger
talking to
vstalking-to
  • Informal
1 4.2

A serious scolding from someone like a parent or boss

has identical meaning but is written as a hyphenated form

Antonyms

2.3

Give someone support and confidence so they try or keep doing something

161 1.0

Words or actions that show admiration for someone

How Severe

berating
1 6.3
reprimand
  • Formal
24 6.1
rebuke
22 6.8
talking-to
  • Informal
3 5.8
admonition
17 7.4
warning
1.0

Surface Forms

talking-to singular
talking-tos plural

Morphology

talking-to = talking (semi-transparent) = to + talk + ing

The compound is built from 'talking' + 'to' and clearly refers to speaking to someone, but the specialized meaning 'a reprimand' is idiomatic and not strictly predictable from the parts. [Postprocessing: moved 'to' from base_words to prefix]

Etymology

Talking-to comes from the simple idea of giving someone a talk to them — a firm 'talk' about their behavior. So a talking-to is a short, serious speech that scolds or warns someone.