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to stay out of it

to stay out of it

56 3.8
To avoid getting involved in an argument or fight
  • phrasal verb
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  • Maybe it's best for you to stay out of it and let Veronica figure it out for herself.
  • just stay out of it
  • try to stay out of it
  • want to stay out of it

And DoD probably has to, you know, stay out of it.

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Examples

  • If the argument doesn't involve you, just stay out of it and avoid the drama.

  • The international community should stay out of it and let us do what we need to do.

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  • So we're trying to stay out of it by walking around.

  • Because I was trying to stay out of it.

  • We have to stay out of it.

  • You should stay out of it.

  • For your own good, just stay out of it, Jack.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • I've done my best to stay out of it.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • The grandmother detested him, but she stayed out of it, not wanting to make things worse for Katie.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • Stay out of it.

Synonyms

to avoid
vsto stay out of it
1.0

To stay away from something or not do it to stop something bad from happening

emphasizes deliberate noninvolvement in disputes rather than general prevention
to stay away
vsto stay out of it
590 1.6

Keep a distance from people or things you want to avoid

stresses deliberate refusal to join a dispute rather than mere absence
to stay away from
vsto stay out of it
384 2.3

Avoid going near people or places for safety

is centered on not taking part in arguments rather than only physical absence
to let it go
vsto stay out of it
370 3.5

To choose not to react to something annoying

relates to keeping out of conflicts rather than only controlling reaction
to back off
vsto stay out of it
  • Informal
356 2.8

Move away from someone, or stop taking part in something

means to deliberately keep out of arguments rather than just step back
to refrain
vsto stay out of it
87 4.2

Choose not to do something you want to do

applies this restraint to avoiding joining disputes or conflicts
to opt out
vsto stay out of it
50 3.5

To choose not to take part in something

is more about avoiding direct involvement in arguments or fights
to keep one's hands off
vsto stay out of it
42 3.6

Not to touch or interfere with something that belongs to someone else

focuses on refusing involvement in disputes rather than physical touching
to keep one's head down
vsto stay out of it
41 6.3

Avoid getting noticed to stay out of trouble

is active avoidance of joining disputes rather than simply staying unnoticed
to mind your own business
vsto stay out of it
  • Informal
35 5.8

Tell someone not to ask about or get involved in other people's lives

asks someone to deliberately avoid joining a conflict or argument
to steer clear of
vsto stay out of it
  • Informal
34 4.0

To stay away from people and things that may cause trouble or harm

targets keeping out of arguments specifically rather than general hazards
to keep one's distance
vsto stay out of it
32 3.9

To stay away from people or things to avoid close contact

focuses on avoiding involvement in a conflict rather than only distance
to keep out
vsto stay out of it
31 1.0

To stay outside a place and not go in

applies avoidance to interpersonal conflicts rather than only physical entry
to butt out
vsto stay out of it
  • Informal
25 8.9

To stop getting involved in other people's business

asks them to not join or interfere in a dispute
to eschew
vsto stay out of it
  • Formal
23 8.9

To avoid something on purpose

is about not entering conflicts rather than formal abstention from acts
to keep at arm's length
vsto stay out of it
10 6.3

To avoid getting too close to someone or something, often emotionally

is more about not joining disputes than keeping steady personal distance
to bury one's head in the sand
vsto stay out of it
  • Informal
5 7.7

To ignore a problem instead of dealing with it

is active noninvolvement in disputes rather than passive denial of problems
to let sleeping dogs lie
vsto stay out of it
  • Informal
4 6.9

Avoid talking about old problems to prevent more arguments

is about avoiding joining current disputes rather than leaving past issues alone
to let it alone
vsto stay out of it
2 3.0

Choose not to touch or change something

focuses more on staying out of interpersonal arguments rather than not changing things
to sidestep the issue
vsto stay out of it
1 6.0

To avoid answering a difficult question by changing the subject

is broader, covering avoiding involvement in conflicts not just topics
to sidestep the controversy
vsto stay out of it
1 6.8

To avoid talking about a controversial issue on purpose

is similar but applies generally to any argument or personal conflict
to stay out of someone's beeswax
vsto stay out of it
  • Slang
9.9

To not ask about or get involved in someone's private matters

is a general request to avoid involvement in a dispute

Antonyms

676 3.4

To take part in an activity

197 5.0

To become involved in a situation to change or stop what is happening

How Involved

to intervene
197 5.0
to get in the swim
  • Informal
8.4
to stay out of it
56 3.8

Surface Forms

stay out of it infinitive
stayed out of it past participle
staying out of it present participle
stays out of it third person singular

Morphology

stay + out + of + it

The meaning 'to deliberately avoid becoming involved' is directly derivable from the parts: 'stay' (remain) + 'out' (away/external) + 'of it' (from the situation). This compositional spatial/metaphorical mapping (stay out of X = remain outside of X) is common across languages and follows a clear English pattern, so a B1 learner who knows the constituents should understand it.

Etymology

The phrase stay out of it gives a simple image: someone who stays out of a room where people are arguing, not going in. So it means 'to avoid getting involved' in a problem or argument.