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to soften the blow

to soften the blow

8 4.7
Make bad news or a loss easier to accept
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : suavizar el golpe
  • There's not much coal companies can do to soften the blow, so it's in their best interest to just kill the bill entirely.

That creates an energy that softens the blow for them.

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Examples

  • To soften the blow of the unexpected layoffs, the manager offered additional severance packages.

  • The doctor spoke gently to soften the blow of the diagnosis for her patient.

  • Should we soften the blow for those who continued and continue to buy gas?

    Blog text (11)
  • But the government wanted to soften the blow by making pensions and health insurance affordable.

    Academic text (1996)
  • We need proactive policies to deal with peak oil to soften the blow.

    Blog text (11)
  • Maybe if you tell them about you two first, it'll soften the blow for me.

  • If not, then we can at least soften the blow of this turmoil that we will inevitably experience.

    Blog text (12)
  • But he, too, found the black saucer eyes in the white face compelling, and he tried to soften the blow a little.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • The teacher tried to soften the blow of the bad news by explaining the benefits of the change.

Synonyms

to ease
vsto soften the blow
305 2.1

To make something less painful or difficult

focuses specifically on making unpleasant situations easier to accept
to alleviate
vsto soften the blow
76 5.3

To make pain, suffering, or a problem less strong

is about easing emotional acceptance of bad situations rather than physical pain
to soften
vsto soften the blow
50 3.1

Make something less strong or harsh

is the idiomatic act of making bad news easier to accept
to lighten
vsto soften the blow
26 2.5

To make a load or worry feel less heavy

is aimed at making unpleasant news or events easier to accept rather than lighter
to cushion
vsto soften the blow
23 3.7

To make a blow or bad news less strong

applies this softening idea to emotional or situational unpleasantness instead
to mollify
vsto soften the blow
8 7.2

To make someone less angry or upset

is intended to make difficult information easier to accept rather than soothe feelings only
to candy-coat
vsto soften the blow
  • Informal
1 7.2

To make something unpleasant sound better to avoid hurting feelings

aims to reduce the hurt itself rather than merely dressing up the message
to sweeten the pill
vsto soften the blow
  • Informal
1 6.2

Make an unpleasant thing seem easier to accept by adding something pleasant

focuses on presentation to help acceptance rather than reducing the actual harm
to palliate
vsto soften the blow
  • Formal
8.8

Make a bad thing or its effects seem less serious without removing the cause

is more about easing acceptance of bad news than masking causes

Antonyms

110 4.0

Make something stronger or more intense

How Severe

to mitigate
63 5.8
to soften the blow
  • Informal
8 4.7
to tone down
44 3.7
to downplay
59 5.3

Surface Forms

soften the blow infinitive
softened the blow past participle
softening the blow present participle
softens the blow third person singular

Morphology

soften + the + blow

The meaning is directly derivable from combining 'soften' (make gentler) with 'blow' (a setback or hit): the expression pictures reducing the impact of a harmful event. This straightforward physical-to-abstract metaphor is common cross‑linguistically and follows regular English composition, so an average B1 learner who knows the constituents should understand it.

Etymology

Soften the blow comes from the simple image of putting something soft between you and a hard hit: to soften a blow is to make a hit less painful. That's why it now means 'to make bad news or a shock less strong'.