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to put our differences behind us

to put our differences behind us

1 5.1
Stop arguing and agree to work together
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : dejar nuestras diferencias atrás
  • A new president was in office; Democrats and Republicans came together to put their differences behind them and passed major legislation.

Examples

  • Right now, we need to put our differences behind us for the sake of our team.

  • We just have to put our differences behind us and work together as friends again.

  • Shall we put our differences behind us and focus on what we can achieve together?

Synonyms

to reconcile
vsto put our differences behind us
38 5.1

To become friendly again after a disagreement

chooses to move forward and not dwell on past conflicts
to forgive and forget
vsto put our differences behind us
  • Informal
12 3.5

To stop feeling angry about a past event and be friendly again

emphasizes forward movement without dwelling, not only emotional forgiveness
to let bygones be bygones
vsto put our differences behind us
10 5.3

Forgive past fights so they do not affect the present

focuses on moving forward rather than rehashing earlier issues
to resolve conflicts
vsto put our differences behind us
5 3.4

To find a fair way to end a disagreement between people

is about moving on together rather than only reaching a formal solution

Antonyms

to hold a grudge
  • Informal
42 4.8

To feel angry at someone for something they did in the past that hurt you

How Reconciled

to bury the hatchet
  • Informal
12 3.7
to make peace
89 3.4
to put our differences behind us
  • Informal
1 5.1
to patch up
25 3.5
to agree to disagree
  • Informal
2 4.1

Surface Forms

Morphology

put + our + difference + behind + us

The meaning is directly inferable from composing 'put' (to place or bring into a state) with 'differences' and the spatial metaphor 'behind us' (leaving something in the past); together they convey placing disagreements out of current concern. This spatial-past metaphor is common cross-linguistically and follows standard compositional patterns, so a B1 learner who knows the constituent words will very likely understand the intended sense.

Etymology

The phrase put our differences behind us gives a simple picture: you put your differences behind you so you cannot see them and can move forward together. That's why it means 'to stop arguing or disagreeing and move on'.