to put our differences behind us
- idiom
- Informal
- A new president was in office; Democrats and Republicans came together to put their differences behind them and passed major legislation.
Examples
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Right now, we need to put our differences behind us for the sake of our team.
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We just have to put our differences behind us and work together as friends again.
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Shall we put our differences behind us and focus on what we can achieve together?
Synonyms
To become friendly again after a disagreement
To stop feeling angry about a past event and be friendly again
Forgive past fights so they do not affect the present
To find a fair way to end a disagreement between people
Antonyms
- Informal
To feel angry at someone for something they did in the past that hurt you
How Reconciled
- Informal
- Informal
- Informal
Surface Forms
Morphology
put + our + difference + behind + us
The meaning is directly inferable from composing 'put' (to place or bring into a state) with 'differences' and the spatial metaphor 'behind us' (leaving something in the past); together they convey placing disagreements out of current concern. This spatial-past metaphor is common cross-linguistically and follows standard compositional patterns, so a B1 learner who knows the constituent words will very likely understand the intended sense.
Etymology
The phrase put our differences behind us gives a simple picture: you put your differences behind you so you cannot see them and can move forward together. That's why it means 'to stop arguing or disagreeing and move on'.