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to patch up

to patch up

25 3.5
Make a relationship better after an argument or disagreement
  • phrasal verb
  • /pætʃ ʌp/
translation icon : reconciliar
  • I, of course, overreacted and said some things I regret... although we did patch things up afterwards.
  • patch things up
  • patch up differences
  • patch up the marriage

Then Trump tried to patch up his recent rough relations with Canada.

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Examples

Synonyms

to settle
vsto patch up
596 3.3

To end an argument by agreement or decision

aims to restore friendly relations rather than only legally resolving conflict
to make up
vsto patch up
77 2.7

Become friends again after a fight

restores a relationship more broadly rather than only a casual reunion
to repair
vsto patch up
71 2.1

To try to make a damaged relationship or reputation better

centres on restoring personal relations after disagreement rather than general fixing
to make amends
vsto patch up
55 3.4

To do something to fix a mistake and show you are sorry

focuses on restoring the relationship itself rather than on corrective acts
to reconcile
vsto patch up
38 5.1

To become friendly again after a disagreement

is less formal and focuses on restoring relations between people
to kiss and make up
vsto patch up
  • Informal
12 3.4

To become friendly again after an argument

restores or improves a relationship more deeply than a playful reconciliation
to bury the hatchet
vsto patch up
  • Informal
12 3.7

Make peace with someone after an argument

restores the relationship without needing a formal forgiveness ritual
to conciliate
vsto patch up
1 7.9

To stop people being angry and make them friendly again

involves direct mutual restoration between people rather than third party mediation
to reknit
vsto patch up
7.2

Bring people back together after a break in their relationship

fixes or improves a relationship generally rather than rebuilding deep communal bonds

Antonyms

35 2.6

To argue angrily with someone about small things

to estrange
  • Formal
2 7.5

Make someone feel distant from family or friends

How Reconciled

to reconcile
38 5.1
to patch up
25 3.5
to make up
77 2.7
to apologize
  • US
1.7
talk
947 1.0

Surface Forms

patch up infinitive
patched up past
patched up past participle
patching up present participle
patches up third person singular

Morphology

patch + up

The verb 'patch' (to repair) together with 'up' (indicating completion or improvement) transparently suggests the idea of repairing or restoring something, so a learner who knows both words can plausibly infer a meaning related to mending. However, the application of physical repair to a social relationship is a metaphorical extension rather than literal composition, so the exact interpersonal sense may not be fully predictable without exposure.

Etymology

Patch up also has a picture for people problems: imagine putting a patch on a tear in a friendship to hold it together again. That's why patch up can mean 'to restore a relationship'.