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to conciliate

to conciliate

1 7.9
To stop people being angry and make them friendly again
  • verb
  • /kənˈsɪliˌeɪt/
translation icon : conciliar
  • Morgan considered himself able to conciliate any dispute, whether between bankers and government, competing railroads, or employers and employees, as in the great coal strike of 1902 (Allen 1949: 222-228).

Examples

  • Hence, Arco had to walk a fine line, conciliating Petroecuador and meeting indigenous leaders' expectations.

    Academic text (1999)
  • Knox ordered Pickering to meet again with the Six Nations and "to impress on the minds of the Indians that their interest and happiness depend upon the protection and friendship of the United States, and to conciliate their affections, for which purpose you will use your highest exertion."

    Academic text (1995)
  • If he wants to get something done for the good of the country, he will have to find a way to conciliate.

    Blog text (19)
  • "You are therefore, upon all occasions, to endeavor to conciliate them to the United States."

    Academic text (1995)
  • And once the revolution had succeeded, President Jimmy Carter then sought to conciliate the new Islamist government.

    Academic text (2002)
  • I thought it better to endeavor to conciliate the kindness of the people of Sky by joining heartily in their amusements than to play the abstract scholar.

    Blog text (24)
  • Yet central governmental policies in both countries have undertaken to conciliate the main ethnic minorities by encouraging ethnic festivals and other nonthreatening aspects of cultural identity.

    Academic text (1992)
  • The procedures for holding meetings, negotiating agreements, escalating problems, arbitrating disputes, shuttling between opposing forces, and conciliating when possible are evolving in today's missions.

    Academic text (1995)
  • The manager tried to conciliate the upset employees by listening to their concerns and promising to make changes.

  • After the argument, she reached out to conciliate with her friend, hoping to restore their relationship.

Synonyms

to settle
vsto conciliate
596 3.3

To end an argument by agreement or decision

also implies soothing anger or hostility, not only ending the issue
to make peace
vsto conciliate
89 3.4

To stop arguing and become friendly again

emphasizes calming hostility in specific acts rather than general peace
to appease
vsto conciliate
48 5.8

To calm someone by giving in to their demands

focuses on calming without necessarily making concessions
to keep the peace
vsto conciliate
38 3.7

Prevent people from arguing or fighting so things stay calm

focuses more on preventing or keeping calm than on achieving agreement
to reconcile
vsto conciliate
38 5.1

To become friendly again after a disagreement

focuses more on calming anger as well as reaching agreement
to mediate
vsto conciliate
32 5.1

To help people who disagree reach an agreement

can include direct calming and reconciliation beyond third party facilitation
to placate
vsto conciliate
28 7.0

To make someone less angry by saying or doing something kind

can include broader moves toward agreement rather than just pleasing
to patch up
vsto conciliate
25 3.5

Make a relationship better after an argument or disagreement

is broader, covering both calming anger and formal agreement
to assuage
vsto conciliate
  • Formal
20 7.7

To make a bad feeling, pain, or worry less strong

targets anger or hostility specifically and seeks restored agreement
to pacify
vsto conciliate
11 5.2

To calm someone who is angry or upset

adds reaching mutual agreement between people, not only calming feelings
to harmonize
vsto conciliate
  • US
10 4.1

Make different things agree or work well together

applies the same idea to people but adds emotional calming
to mollify
vsto conciliate
8 7.2

To make someone less angry or upset

is broader, aiming to bring parties into agreement as well as calm
to resolve conflicts
vsto conciliate
5 3.4

To find a fair way to end a disagreement between people

additionally stresses calming feelings and restoring friendly relations
to treat
vsto conciliate
  • Archaic
5 9.9

To negotiate formally with another group to reach agreement

is broader, including informal calming and restoring friendly relations
to parley
vsto conciliate
  • Archaic
3 8.6

To hold a discussion between opposing sides to try to make an agreement or peace

adds active calming and rebuilding trust, not only formal discussions
to bring everyone together
vsto conciliate
3 3.4

To make a group feel part of the same community

is narrower, focusing on calming hostility or making agreements between parties
to extend an olive branch
vsto conciliate
  • Informal
2 4.2

Offer to make peace after an argument

can be part of calming and agreement but is a single initiating gesture
to settle a disagreement
vsto conciliate
1 3.1

Make people or groups agree after an argument

adds the idea of reducing anger or hostility as well as deciding
to lenify
vsto conciliate
  • Archaic
9.9

To make someone feel calmer or less angry

is more about temperament change than achieving a group agreement
to gruntle
vsto conciliate
  • Archaic
9.9

Make someone feel pleased or less upset

aims more at calming anger and building agreement rather than simple contentment

Antonyms

144 3.6

Annoy someone again and again to make them react

123 6.7

To make someone feel alone and lose support from others

How Reconciliatory

to reconcile
38 5.1
to conciliate
1 7.9
to appease
48 5.8
to placate
28 7.0

Surface Forms

conciliate infinitive
conciliated past participle
conciliating present participle
conciliates third person singular

Etymology

Conciliate comes from the Latin conciliare, which meant 'bring together' or 'win over', and con- means 'together'. So to conciliate someone is to calm them and 'bring them together' with you, stopping their anger.