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wrenching

wrenching

9 7.5
Causing very strong emotional or physical pain
  • adjective
  • /ˈrɛnʧɪŋ/
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  • It's hard to think about that now without feeling a wrenching sense of loss.
  • a wrenching story
  • wrenching change
  • the most wrenching

And every episode is just gorgeous and touching and heart wrenching and uplifting.

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Examples

  • And I wish I could somehow express how what is happening to you... ...is the most wrenching experience of my life.

  • Suddenly he stops in the center of the demolished set and lets out a long, wrenching scream.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • So it's no surprise that deciding whether or not to leave the place they call home is a wrenching decision.

  • People wrote lengthy, detailed and often heart wrenching tales.

  • All that has followed is a hard, grueling, wrenching daily fact of life for him.

    Academic text (1995)
  • Deep in his voice, she heard the echo of an old, wrenching sorrow.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • Can any funeral rites ever quiet the wrenching sadness of those left living?

    Fiction book (1996)
  • But the most wrenching story had been about an employee who was brutally beaten after work one night.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • And that led to one of the most gut wrenching and difficult conversations I've ever been a part of.

  • Deciding to end a long-term friendship can be a wrenching experience that leaves you feeling heartbroken.

Synonyms

painful
vswrenching
737 1.0

Making someone feel physical hurt or strong emotional upset

is stronger, emphasizing great emotional or physical distress specifically
heartbreaking
vswrenching
92 3.7

Causing someone to feel very sad and upset

is more general, including physical suffering as well as sadness
excruciating
vswrenching
46 7.9

Causing very strong physical or mental pain

covers great distress generally rather than only the very extreme cases
heart-breaking
vswrenching
17 3.5

To make someone feel very sad and often cry

is broader, applying to severe physical pain as well as sorrow
torturous
vswrenching
  • Offensive
16 8.4

Causing very strong pain to the body or mind

is broad, meaning great distress without implying punishment or cruelty
gut-wrenching
vswrenching
15 7.4

That makes you feel very sad and upset

also covers deep physical pain as well as emotional suffering
agonizing
vswrenching
  • US
7 5.9

Causing very strong physical or emotional pain

is similar but can be slightly less extreme in intensity
heartrending
vswrenching
2 7.8

Causes people to feel very sad

is the wider term for strong emotional or physical pain
torturesome
vswrenching
  • Offensive
9.9

Causing very strong physical or mental pain

is the general term for great pain or emotional distress
racking
vswrenching
7.4

Causing very strong physical or mental pain

focuses on great distress without stressing duration or repeated strain
scarring
vswrenching
5.8

Causing long-lasting physical or emotional harm

focuses on immediate great pain or distress rather than long-term harm

Antonyms

134 1.4

Making someone feel less worried or upset

2.6

That helps the body or mind become healthy again

Compounds

15 7.4

That makes you feel very sad and upset

A very hard choice that makes you feel deep pain or sadness

How Distressing

devastating
224 5.1
traumatic
154 6.3
wrenching
9 7.5
distressing
  • Specialized
36 4.6
unpleasant
215 1.0

Surface Forms

wrenching positive

Morphology

wrenching = wrench (semi-transparent) = wrench + ing

Formed from the verb 'wrench' + '-ing'; the emotional sense is a metaphorical extension of the physical action rather than a strictly literal meaning.

Etymology

Wrenching comes from the verb wrench, which means 'to twist' or 'to pull' sharply, like when you use a tool called a wrench. A helpful way to remember it is to imagine your feelings being 'twisted' or pulled out of you, which is why wrenching describes great emotional or physical pain.