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unloving

unloving

2 5.6
Not showing care or warmth to other people
  • adjective
  • /ʌnˈlʌvɪŋ/
translation icon : frío
  • After years of neglect, she realized her parents had been unloving, leaving her feeling unwanted.
  • unloving parents
  • cold and unloving
  • selfish and unloving

It would have been unloving on his part to demand that from you.

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Examples

  • It would have been unloving on his part to demand that from you.

  • Only the most unloving and unreasonable spouse demands, "Get out with the clothes on your back."

    Blog text (1)
  • Do you really think it's healthy for kids to see two unloving parents?

    Blog text (19)
  • I know my words and tone are harsh and unloving, but I want men and women to learn and grow.

    Blog text (31)
  • He's a cold, unloving sort of fish.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • You accuse others of being unloving for your child, but deny or ignore the fact that you are being rude.

    Blog text (4)
  • You come across as proud, close-minded, hard-hearted, and unloving.

    Blog text (1)
  • In that context, I understood the lyrics to be addressing children whose parents had been unloving or emotionally abusive.

    Academic text (2015)
  • The Princess accuses the Queen of being an unloving mother who puts her lust over her child's lifelong happiness.

    Academic text (2012)
  • We've allowed other, unbiblical, ungodly, unloving voices to carry the 'Christian' torch for the last thirty years.

    Blog text (33)

Synonyms

cold
vsunloving
883 4.4

Unfriendly and distant in feeling or action

is more about lacking love and warmth than mere emotional distance
mean
vsunloving
699 2.2

Unkind and cruel toward other people

is not about causing harm deliberately but about lacking affection and warmth
heartless
vsunloving
  • Offensive
79 4.1

Not showing kindness or sympathy to others

is less actively cruel and more about lacking love or warmth
unkind
vsunloving
44 1.0

Not friendly or caring to other people

is more specific to missing warmth and deeper emotional affection
unfriendly
vsunloving
22 1.9

Not kind or warm to other people

is deeper, meaning absence of love and kindness rather than simple lack of warmth
uncaring
vsunloving
18 4.2

Not showing concern for other people's feelings or needs

is focused on absence of love and warmth rather than simple neglect of needs
loveless
vsunloving
14 4.2

Having no love or warm feelings

is about not showing warmth or kindness rather than total absence of love
unfeeling
vsunloving
14 5.9

Not showing sympathy or care for other people's feelings

is specifically about missing love or warmth rather than general insensitivity
unsympathetic
vsunloving
7 4.9

Not feeling sorry for someone or caring about their problems

is more about lacking love and warmth rather than lacking understanding
cold as ice
vsunloving
  • Informal
4 7.2

Not showing any feeling or kindness to others

is milder, meaning simply lacking love or warmth rather than extreme distance
coldhearted
vsunloving
4 6.0

Showing no care or sympathy for other people

is softer, focusing on lacking love and warmth rather than cruelty
unaffectionate
vsunloving
1 6.5

Not showing love or warm feelings to others

is broader, lacking both love and general kindness rather than only tenderness
cold-livered
vsunloving
  • Offensive
9.9

Does not feel or show care for other people

is closer to merely lacking love or warmth rather than showing cruelty
unpitying
vsunloving
8.8

Not showing kindness or mercy when others suffer

is milder, meaning absence of love or warmth rather than active harshness

Antonyms

454 1.0

A person who shows strong care and warm feelings for someone

56 2.2

To show warm, loving feelings to someone

How Loving

loving
454 1.0
caring
54 1.6
cold
883 4.4
unloving
2 5.6
distant
61 4.9

Surface Forms

unloving positive

Morphology

unloving = loving (transparent) = un + love + ing

The adjective is formed by adding the negative prefix 'un-' to the clearly adjectival base 'loving', yielding the straightforward meaning 'not loving'.

Etymology

Unloving is formed from the negative prefix un- meaning 'not' and love, so it literally means 'not loving' or 'not showing affection'. That's why someone described as unloving seems cold and lacks warmth or kindness.