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unaffectionate

unaffectionate

1 6.5
Not showing love or warm feelings to others
  • adjective
  • /ˌʌnəˈfɛkʃənɪt/
: frío
  • "...unaffectionate daughter "of a blind Lithuanian violin maker."

Examples

  • Mustafa Sa'eed's unaffectionate character foreshadows his violent and unsympathetic dealings with English women when he later travels to England.

    Academic text (2018)
  • On top of all this, my boyfriend thinks I'm unaffectionate and don't want him.

    Blog text (5)
  • And she, I think they rubbed off on us because it made us tough, almost unaffectionate, just just calculating everything we did.

  • When he is in a good mental state, we have such a wonderful relationship, but then if he is stressed out about anything, he just changes into a cold-hearted, unaffectionate, uninterested boyfriend.

    Blog text (1)
  • She often felt lonely because her parents were too unaffectionate to show her love.

  • After years of living with an unaffectionate partner, he decided it was time to end the relationship.

  • Growing up with unaffectionate caregivers left him struggling to form close relationships later in life.

Synonyms

cold
vsunaffectionate
372 4.4

Unfriendly and distant in feeling or action

is similar but centers on absence of affectionate warmth specifically
indifferent
vsunaffectionate
50 4.4

Not interested or showing no strong feeling about something

is about failing to show warmth toward people rather than general disinterest
detached
vsunaffectionate
43 5.5

A person who is not affected by personal feelings and shows little emotion

is specifically the failure to show warmth or closeness
aloof
vsunaffectionate
33 6.3

Not friendly and distant, not joining in with other people

is less about distance in manner and more about missing tenderness
apathetic
vsunaffectionate
24 6.8

Not showing much interest or energy

is about absence of affectionate warmth rather than low general energy
uncaring
vsunaffectionate
18 4.2

Not showing concern for other people's feelings or needs

lacks affectionate warmth but may still feel general concern
loveless
vsunaffectionate
14 4.2

Having no love or warm feelings

is about not showing warmth without claiming there is no love at all
unfeeling
vsunaffectionate
13 5.9

Not showing sympathy or care for other people's feelings

focuses specifically on not showing affection or closeness rather than cruelty
unemotional
vsunaffectionate
10 4.4

Not showing strong feelings

is the failure to show affectionate warmth rather than general calmness
impassive
vsunaffectionate
9 7.1

Not showing any feeling on the face or in the voice

is about lacking affectionate warmth rather than merely blank expression
unloving
vsunaffectionate
2 5.6

Not showing care or warmth to other people

is a lack of shown warmth rather than total absence of love
uninvolved
vsunaffectionate
1 4.4

Not showing emotion about what happens

is the absence of affectionate warmth rather than mere nonengagement
undemonstrative
vsunaffectionate
1 7.6

Does not show feelings openly to other people

is about lack of affectionate warmth rather than private feeling concealment
undemonstrated
vsunaffectionate
1 7.6

Not showing feelings openly so others cannot tell how they feel

focuses on withheld displays rather than absence of tenderness
unfond
vsunaffectionate
1 8.4

Not liking a person or thing very much

is about not showing warmth even when some liking may exist
noninvolved
vsunaffectionate
6.6

Not having a personal connection or strong feeling about something

is about not showing warmth toward others rather than general detachment
unexpansive
vsunaffectionate
8.6

Not talking much and not showing strong feelings

is specifically about not showing warmth or tenderness to others

Antonyms

321 1.0

Showing kindness and affection to others

49 2.2

To show warm, loving feelings to someone

How Affectionate

loving
527 1.0
affectionate
49 2.2
warm
321 1.0
cold
372 4.4
unaffectionate
1 6.5
distant
86 4.9

Surface Forms

unaffectionate positive

Morphology

unaffectionate = affectionate (transparent) = un + affection + ate

The negating prefix 'un-' is added to the adjective 'affectionate' with no idiomatic shift, so the meaning 'not showing affection' is directly inferable.

Etymology

The word unaffectionate breaks into un- meaning 'not' and the familiar word affection meaning 'a warm feeling or love'. So, unaffectionate describes someone who does not show 'warmth' or friendly, loving feelings.