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to spoil

to spoil

70 3.7
To give a child too many gifts or freedoms, causing bad behavior
  • verb
  • /spɔɪl/
translation icon : mimar
  • It's my only niece, I've got the right to spoil her, right?
  • spoil the child
  • spare the rod and spoil the child

He wanted someone to spoil, and I said you can spoil me.

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Examples

  • Careful, fellas, you might spoil me with too much attention.

  • But this Christmas, my boyfriend, he kind of spoils me a little bit.

  • Do you think it's possible to spoil a dog too much?

  • Why are you trying to spoil our fine relationship of five years?

    Fiction book (1996)
  • Darling, I'm not going to spoil you.

  • - You got to stop spoiling that boy.

  • But he soon learned she subscribed to the "spare the rod, spoil the child" school of thought.

    Academic text (2007)
  • And she didn't want to spoil the easy, peaceful mood of the last weeks.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • We have a tendency to spoil our children too much and to postpone cutting the umbilical cord.

    Academic text (1991)
  • It's important not to spoil children too much, as it may lead to difficult behavior later on.

Synonyms

to pamper
vsto spoil
42 3.7

To give someone too much care and special treatment

often results in bad behavior or unrealistic expectations from excess attention
to indulge
vsto spoil
39 4.1

To let someone have whatever they want, often too much

is about treatment that causes bad behavior and unrealistic expectations
to coddle
vsto spoil
37 6.4

Treat someone with too much care so they become less independent

is about indulgence that causes bad behavior and unrealistic expectations
to baby
vsto spoil
  • Informal
30 6.0

To treat someone with too much care and make things too easy for them

leads to bad behavior and unrealistic expectations through excess attention
to baby up
vsto spoil
  • Informal
6 8.8

To treat someone with too much care so they do not learn to help themselves

causes dependence and unrealistic expectations through overindulgence
to spoil someone rotten
vsto spoil
  • Informal
3 6.7

To give someone too much kindness and gifts so they expect special treatment

is broader leading to bad behavior and unrealistic expectations
to mollycoddle
vsto spoil
  • Archaic
1 9.3

To give someone too much care so they become weak

focuses on indulgence that produces bad behavior and unrealistic expectations
to cosset
vsto spoil
1 9.1

To give someone too much care and protection so they do not face problems

is broader indulgence that creates bad behavior and unrealistic expectations
to cocker
vsto spoil
  • UK
9.9

To give someone too much care or gifts so they do not learn to manage on their own

focuses on indulgence causing bad behavior and unrealistic expectations
to featherbed
vsto spoil
  • Archaic
8.6

To give someone too much comfort so they do not learn

leads to poor behavior and unrealistic expectations through excess treatment

Antonyms

173 3.6

Training people to follow rules, often using punishment or strict control

100 3.5

Not caring for someone or something that needs care

Idioms

3 6.7

To give someone too much kindness and gifts so they expect special treatment

Phrasal Verbs

to spoil for
  • Informal
3 7.2

Want very much to start a fight or argument

Make a market worse by lowering prices or selling low-quality goods

Compounds

spoil bank
  • Specialized
8.2

A pile of waste rock and earth left from mining or digging

How Indulged

to spoil
70 3.7
to pamper
42 3.7
to indulge
39 4.1

Surface Forms

spoil infinitive
spoiled past
spoiled past participle
spoiling present participle
spoils third person singular

Etymology

Spoil (to pamper) may seem opposite, but it links to the idea of 'taking away' too: the old root spoliare meant 'to take away', and giving someone everything can 'take away' their good behaviour. A helpful way to remember this is to think that to spoil a child is to remove their limits or self-control.