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softy

softy

10 6.8
A person who shows strong feelings easily and is not tough
  • noun
  • /ˈsɔfti/
  • Offensive
: blandengue
  • Despite his gruff exterior, my father is a real softy when it comes to family.
  • a big softy
  • an old softy
  • a softy at heart

He is a big softy but he can have it.

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Examples

Synonyms

softie
vssofty
  • Offensive
12 5.8

A person who shows strong feelings and is easily moved

has identical sense and is a common informal label
namby-pamby
vssofty
  • Offensive
1 9.9

A person who is not brave and acts weak

emphasises being easily led by feelings rather than general frailty
soft touch
vssofty
  • Offensive
1 7.0

A person who easily agrees and can be taken advantage of

is driven by feeling and sentiment rather than mere gullibility
softy at heart
vssofty
  • Informal
1 6.7

A person who seems tough but is kind and gentle inside

shows softness as emotional weakness and easy influence rather than kindness
feely
vssofty
  • Informal
1 9.9

A person who makes decisions based on feelings rather than careful thought

is about being easily influenced emotionally and overly sentimental
softcock
vssofty
  • Offensive
9.9

A person who is weak and afraid to act in difficult situations

focuses more on emotional sensitivity and lack of toughness

Antonyms

tough guy
  • Informal
186 4.2

A man who acts strong to scare people

11 7.0

Calm when in pain or under stress

Idioms

softy at heart
  • Informal
1 6.7

A person who seems tough but is kind and gentle inside

How Tough

tough
7 7.5
gentle
408 1.0
softy
  • Offensive
10 6.8
sensitive
2 4.4

Surface Forms

softy singular
softies plural

Morphology

softy = soft (transparent) = soft + y

Productive suffix '-y' added to the adjective 'soft' yields a noun meaning 'person characterized by softness', which learners can readily infer.

Etymology

The word softy comes from the adjective soft 'gentle' or 'not hard' plus the ending -y that turns it into a word for a person. Think of a soft pillow: a softy is someone who is emotionally 'soft', easily moved and not very tough.