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softness

softness

3 1.8
A gentle, kind way of acting toward others
  • noun
  • /ˈsɔːftnəs/
translation icon : indulgencia
  • He approached the sensitive topic with a softness that showed he truly cared.

Examples

  • Love avoids the hard things, but it can go around the hard things and get into the softness of the soul.

  • Just trying to find some softness or love.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • All I want is a little softness right down here.

  • I still want a little bit of that softness happening.

  • The truth is I had a load of softness in me.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • Feel the child relax into the softness of your breast.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • For it is in self-compassion and softness for ourselves that we find peace and inner confidence.

    Blog text (30)
  • Nola feels herself rise and climb into the roomy softness of her mother's lap to cry.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • Archer smiles gently, almost sadly, with a softness and genuineness that Castor Troy could never feel, could never fake.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • The prince's Christianity consists of his innate kindness, softness, and moral ideas borrowed from the Bible, theology, and philosophy.

    Academic text (2003)

Synonyms

warmth
vssoftness
103 1.0

A friendly, kind feeling in the way someone speaks or acts

is the wider trait of being mild and forgiving, beyond friendliness
tenderness
vssoftness
41 3.4

A gentle caring feeling of love and concern for someone

focuses more broadly on mild, forgiving manner not only affection
leniency
vssoftness
26 4.6

Not being strict when judging or punishing someone

extends that lenient approach to overall gentle behavior and manner
gentleness
vssoftness
19 1.3

A kind, calm way of treating people or animals

is the broad quality of being mild and forgiving in manner
niceness
vssoftness
11 1.3

A kind and polite way of treating other people

adds an element of forgiveness and mildness beyond mere politeness
lenience
vssoftness
1 6.0

To be kind when judging or punishing people

applies that mercy more widely to calm, forgiving personal manner
soft touch
vssoftness
1 3.7

A gentle way of touching or handling people and objects

is the general inner quality of being mild and forgiving in manner
mildness
vssoftness
1 3.3

A gentle, calm way of treating people

focuses more on gentle forgiveness across behavior than on simple moderation
benignity
vssoftness
1 8.1

A kind, gentle way of acting that makes people feel safe

is the general mild, forgiving personal quality including such acts
lenity
vssoftness
  • Formal
9.9

Being kind and not strict when judging or punishing someone

covers that mercy but also general mildness in everyday manner
softheartedness
vssoftness
6.1

A kind feeling that makes you easily feel sorry for people in need

shares compassion but is broader, covering mildness and forgiving attitude
tenderheartedness
vssoftness
5.8

A kind, gentle feeling that makes you feel sorry for others and want to help them

is more general, adding mild, forgiving behavior beyond emotional response
warmness
vssoftness
1.1

A feeling of kindness and affection toward someone

includes that warmth but stresses mildness and forgiving behavior too
warmheartedness
vssoftness
4.4

A kind and friendly feeling toward other people

covers caring but also the forgiving, mild side of personal manner
benignancy
vssoftness
9.9

A kind, gentle way of acting that makes people feel cared for

is a broader label for mild, forgiving manner including benevolence
delicateness
vssoftness
5.3

Careful, gentle way of dealing with people or difficult situations

is more about overall mildness and forgiving personal manner rather than sensitivity

Antonyms

6 4.1

Very severe or unkind treatment that causes harm

1 5.1

A strict, serious attitude that does not allow bad behavior

How Gentle

indulgence
19 5.1
softness
3 1.8
leniency
26 4.6
gentleness
19 1.3

Surface Forms

softness singular
softnesses plural

Morphology

softness = soft (transparent) = soft + ness

The noun is a regular nominalization of the adjective 'soft' with the productive suffix '-ness', so the meaning is directly derived.

Etymology

Softness comes from the old word soft plus the ending -ness meaning 'quality', and soft meant 'gentle' or 'kind', like someone who speaks quietly and cares for others. So softness here means the 'quality of being gentle or forgiving' in behaviour.