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self-willed

self-willed

1 7.3
A person who insists on doing what they want and often disobeys others
  • adjective
  • /ˌsɛlfˈwɪld/
translation icon : obstinado
  • He was self-willed and ignored everyone's advice about his career choices.

And here's the problem, like the squabbling of self willed children, like like stubborn bratty kids.

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Examples

  • You've got to cut this out and you who are so strong willed, you have this incredible self willed, this, you know, well honed discipline.

  • O stubborn, self-willed exile from the loving breast!

    Blog text (26)
  • Who was stupid and aggressive, dangerously self-willed - maybe sometimes...

    Fiction book (1991)
  • More specifically the Kwantung Army, the most self willed Japanese force, invades Manchuria.

  • I was self-willed 24-year-old.

  • Noisy, self-willed man.

  • And she was an old lady more than sixty years old who, had she not been so foolish and self-willed, might have had a house full of servants to push that carpet sweeper for her!

    Fiction book (1996)
  • "Liberty!" Wilma, detecting a self-willed streak that it would be useless to oppose, capitulated.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • Half the time, she was like that, too: disciplined, self-willed, a workaholic, brimming with tidiness and self-mastery.

    Fiction book (2001)
  • Her self-willed nature often led her to go against the suggestions of her friends.

Synonyms

stubborn
vsself-willed
217 2.9

Not willing to change your mind even when others try to persuade you

is more about acting to satisfy one's own wishes despite others' advice
persistent
vsself-willed
43 4.4

Continuing with an action despite problems or opposition

is more about choosing one's own way despite others' wishes or advice
willful
vsself-willed
  • US
26 5.5

Deliberately refusing to follow rules or instructions out of stubbornness

is broader and covers doing as one wants beyond mere rule defiance
strong-willed
vsself-willed
19 4.3

A person who decides to do something and does not change their mind

is similar but adds habit of ignoring others' wishes and advice
headstrong
vsself-willed
18 4.1

Someone who wants to do things their own way and refuses advice

is more a continuing habit of ignoring others' wishes and advice
obstinate
vsself-willed
16 7.5

Refusing to change your opinion or behavior even when others try to persuade you

is focused on doing as one wants even when ignoring others' wishes
recalcitrant
vsself-willed
  • Formal
11 8.1

Not willing to follow rules or accept control

is broader and covers doing as one wants beyond mere rule resistance
intransigent
vsself-willed
8 8.1

Not willing to change views or agree with others

is more about personal action and ignoring wishes not only refusing agreement
hardheaded
vsself-willed
6 6.7

Refusing to change your mind even when shown evidence

is more about firm personal direction even when others' wishes seem sensible
set in one's ways
vsself-willed
  • Informal
4 7.2

Not willing to change habits or the way they do things

is about actively choosing to do as one wants even against advice or requests
obdurate
vsself-willed
3 8.8

A person who refuses to change their opinion or behaviour even when others try to persuade them

is more about acting on one's own wishes rather than yielding to others
stiff-necked
vsself-willed
1 8.1

Not willing to change your mind or actions

is centered on acting as one wishes rather than mere unwillingness to change
indocile
vsself-willed
1 9.9

Hard to control or train and does not obey people in charge

is about choosing one's own actions even if that means ignoring advice
froward
vsself-willed
  • Archaic
1 9.9

A person who often refuses to obey and is difficult to manage

is the common present term for that habitually disobedient behavior
self-opinionated
vsself-willed
8.2

Someone who is always sure their ideas are right and refuses to change, even when they are wrong

is more about acting on personal desires even if that disobeys others' requests
as stubborn as an anvil
vsself-willed
  • Informal
9.2

Refusing to change an opinion even when people give reasons

is the literal description of habitual disobedience rather than a figurative expression
as stubborn as all get-out
vsself-willed
  • Informal
9.6

Very unwilling to change their mind

is a general term for habitual refusal to obey rather than hyperbole

Antonyms

38 5.1

Willing to obey others and not argue

31 5.1

Willing to follow rules or do what other people want

22 5.5

Easy to teach and willing to follow instructions

How Willful

intransigent
8 8.1
stubborn
217 2.9
self-willed
1 7.3
determined
399 2.5
independent
984 2.3
compliant
31 5.1

Surface Forms

self-willed positive

Morphology

self-willed = self + willed (transparent) = self + will + ed

The compound combines 'self' (relating to oneself) and 'willed' (having a will), yielding a directly interpretable meaning 'determined to follow one's own will'.

Etymology

Self-willed comes from the parts self ('oneself') and will ('wish' or 'choice'), so it literally means doing what your own wish says. That's why a self-willed person is determined or stubborn and may ignore other people's advice.