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self-abasement

self-abasement

1 9.3
Act of making yourself feel ashamed to show you are sorry
  • noun
  • /ˈsɛlf əˌbeɪsmənt/
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  • The speaker's self-abasement during the apology showed his sincere regret for his past mistakes.

Examples

  • " Rhetoric of self-abasement and dependency was used to gain the confidence and goodwill of others, and was not reflective of an actual inability to provide for one's self or otherwise mold one's life.

    Academic text (1999)
  • Apparently, Carlyle never returned to his private outpouring of grief and self-abasement.

    Academic text (2001)
  • "I have nothing to gain, much to lose, by self-abasement," Ghrul-Captain knew.

    Fiction book (2001)
  • The fear of physical pain... drove him to that grotesque act of self-abasement.

  • It was an aimless search, rife with conflict and self-abasement.

  • In it, she takes all the blame, grovels in self-abasement for not staying the course, and regrets all the emotional carnage she has caused.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • Beginning with their earliest encounters with whites, the Choctaws used language both of self-abasement and of praise for those they were entreating.

    Academic text (1999)
  • I have spent much of my life in Evangelical circles where humility is exalted (one of my writer friends can tell me if that is irony or paradox) and self-abasement is the highest form of piety.

    Blog text (22)
  • His frequent acts of self-abasement made it hard for his friends to reassure him of his worth.

  • In her journey of recovery, she realized that self-abasement would not heal her wounds but rather deepen them.

Synonyms

penance
vsself-abasement
27 7.4

A feeling of deep regret and an action to show you are sorry

leans toward humiliating acts done to show remorse rather than private regret
self-criticism
vsself-abasement
4 5.1

A habit of judging yourself harshly for your actions or abilities

focuses more on humiliation and punishment for atonement instead of general judgment
self-flagellation
vsself-abasement
2 9.9

To punish yourself by hitting your body with a whip, often for religious reasons

includes humiliation and seeking atonement beyond this specific painful practice
self-punishment
vsself-abasement
1 7.5

Making yourself suffer because you feel guilty

focuses on humiliating the person to show remorse rather than only punishment
self-torture
vsself-abasement
1 7.4

Causing yourself pain by thinking a lot about bad things

focuses more on deliberate humiliation and atonement rather than only mental distress
self-reproach
vsself-abasement
1 7.1

A feeling of blaming yourself for something you did wrong

involves humiliating or punishing the person publicly to atone rather than only feeling guilty
self-condemnation
vsself-abasement
1 7.9

To blame yourself for mistakes or failures

adds deliberate humiliation or punishment aimed at showing remorse rather than private criticism
self-mortification
vsself-abasement
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9.9

A practice of hurting yourself on purpose to show discipline or say sorry, often for religious reasons

emphasizes humiliation and public punishment more than private physical pain
self-torment
vsself-abasement
8.6

To make yourself feel sad or guilty on purpose by replaying past events

is more about punishing and humbling to express remorse rather than internal suffering
self-reproof
vsself-abasement
8.9

A feeling of blaming yourself for a mistake

tends to include deliberate public humiliation or punishment beyond private criticism
self-accusation
vsself-abasement
7.6

Blaming yourself for things you did wrong

usually involves humiliating acts to show remorse rather than mere admission
self-defilement
vsself-abasement
9.9

To act or think in ways that make you feel worthless and ashamed

is more about deliberate humiliating punishment done to seek atonement than personal damage
self-abnegation
vsself-abasement
9.9

To give up your own needs to help others

differs by focusing on humiliating punishment to atone rather than sacrifice for others

Antonyms

183 3.5

A feeling of confidence and pride in yourself

Accepting yourself as you are, including your strengths and weaknesses

How Humiliating

degradation
16 6.3
self-abasement
1 9.3

Surface Forms

Morphology

self-abasement = abasement (transparent) = self + abase + ment

The meaning is directly compositional: 'self-' indicates the action is directed at oneself and 'abasement' means humiliation, so together 'humiliating oneself' is clear.

Etymology

Self-abasement combines self ('oneself') and abase ('to lower'), so it literally means 'lowering yourself'. The same idea is in the word basement ('low place'), which helps explain why self-abasement means humiliating or punishing yourself.