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mistress

mistress

151 7.2
A woman who has a long sexual relationship with a married man
  • noun
  • /ˈmɪstrəs/
  • NSFW
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  • The King is unhappy with his mistress and seeks revelry to lift his spirits.
  • become a mistress
  • wife and mistress
  • former mistress

Donald Trump has three wives and his mistresses don't include Cleopatra.

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Examples

  • Lateesha was one of Claremont's many mistresses.

  • My husband and his mistress.

  • Boss brought his mistress to the Christmas party, not left his wife and kids at home.

  • One child by a mistress.

  • And you know why I have a mistress?

  • Another thing to consider is that a lot of men will be quicker to get a new mistress than to get a new wife.

  • He's got a mistress, all right.

  • That's what you get for having a wife and a mistress.

  • He's got a family, he's got a mistress.

  • After many years of being a secret, she finally accepted her role as his mistress.

Synonyms

lover
vsmistress
614 1.0

A person who has a romantic or sexual relationship with someone

refers specifically to a woman in an ongoing relationship with a married man
concubine
vsmistress
  • Archaic
24 9.1

A woman who lives with a man she is not married to and has less respect than his wife

refers to a continuing sexual relationship while not implying cohabitation or lower status
paramour
vsmistress
  • Literature
9 8.1

A person who has a secret romantic relationship, often outside marriage

is specific to a woman having a married relationship rather than any secret lover
kept woman
vsmistress
  • NSFW
1 8.4

A woman who a lover pays for, often when he is married to someone else

is defined by a continuing sexual relationship without required financial support
fancy woman
vsmistress
  • NSFW
1 9.5

A woman who has a sexual relationship with a man who supports her financially

focuses on the continuing sexual relationship without money emphasis

Compounds

A woman who teaches, rehearses, and directs dancers in a ballet company

cruel mistress
  • Literature
9.1

Something like time or ambition that takes much and gives little

A woman teacher who leads sports and physical education at a school

8.5

A woman who introduces speakers and keeps a formal event running smoothly

How Legal

wife
1.0
common-law marriage
  • Specialized
2 4.3
partner
878 1.1
concubine
  • Archaic
24 9.1
mistress
  • NSFW
151 7.2
girlfriend
272 1.0

Surface Forms

mistress singular
mistresses plural

Morphology

mistress = master (semi-transparent) = master + ess

Formally the feminine counterpart of 'master' (master + -ess), but the sense 'female sexual partner of a married man' reflects a historical semantic shift that is not directly inferable from the base for many learners.

Etymology

Mistress comes from the same root as master with the female ending -ess, so it originally meant 'female master'. Over time it also came to mean a man's secret or 'kept' partner, because she held a special, private position in his life.