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paramour

paramour

9 8.1
A person who has a secret romantic relationship, often outside marriage
  • noun
  • /ˈpærəˌmʊr/
  • Literature
translation icon : amante
  • Have you collected so many paramours you can't tell one from another?

Young males will pluck the eyebrows of their paramours, of their beloveds.

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Examples

  • Why, Mr. Santo, I just want to tell you how delighted I am that you and your paramour could join us this evening.

  • We will need your help and your paramour's to snare it.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • Will your paramour be joining us this evening?

  • I thought possibly she might have quarreled with Paul, her London paramour, but then again she may have just been tired.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • The King noticed her during a masquerade and made her his paramour.

  • To his death, my uncle loved her and considered her his ultimate confidante and paramour.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • It was one of Frank Stockburn's many paramours.

  • Unfortunately—for her, that is—her paramour had been murdered in a raid.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • She mopes and mourns for her pubescent paramour but she knows my interventions have saved her life and she is sweetly grateful.

  • She met her paramour in secret to avoid gossip about their relationship.

Synonyms

lover
vsparamour
614 1.0

A person who has a romantic or sexual relationship with someone

is mainly secret or illicit, often occurring outside marriage
mistress
vsparamour
  • NSFW
151 7.2

A woman who has a long sexual relationship with a married man

is gender-neutral, applying to secret partners of any sex
concubine
vsparamour
  • Archaic
24 9.1

A woman who lives with a man she is not married to and has less respect than his wife

is secret or illicit and often outside marriage rather than recognized long cohabitation
adulterer
vsparamour
  • NSFW
21 6.8

A married person who has sex with someone who is not their husband or wife

refers to the secret partner rather than the married person committing adultery
sidepiece
vsparamour
  • NSFW
9.9

A person who is a secret partner outside someone's main romantic relationship

is used for any secret or illicit lover, not only additional partners

How Secret

paramour
  • Literature
9 8.1
boyfriend
1.0
partner
878 1.1
spouse
272 1.0

Surface Forms

paramour singular
paramours plural

Etymology

Paramour comes from the old French words par 'by' and amour 'love', a phrase that meant 'for love'. So a paramour was originally a lover, and today it usually means a secret or forbidden lover.