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cruel mistress

cruel mistress

9.1
Something like time or ambition that takes much and gives little
  • noun
  • Literature
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  • Time proved to be a cruel mistress, stealing his youth without mercy.

Examples

  • Ambition is often described as a cruel mistress that demands everything and gives little in return.

  • For many artists, fame can be a cruel mistress that brings both adoration and suffering.

  • Time is a cruel mistress that waits for no one.

  • Many believe that fate is a cruel mistress in their lives.

  • Ambition is often described as a cruel mistress that demands everything and gives little in return.

  • For many artists, fame can be a cruel mistress that brings both adoration and suffering.

  • Time proved to be a cruel mistress, stealing his youth without mercy.

Synonyms

brutal
vscruel mistress
142 4.2

Very harsh and severe, causing great difficulty or pain

describes harshness but is less extreme in severity
curse
vscruel mistress
126 4.9

A person or thing that causes a lot of harm

describes an unrelenting force rather than a cause or punishment
harsh
vscruel mistress
120 2.9

Very severe and demanding, making life or work difficult, for example very bad weather

uses a personified image to show unrelenting unforgiving effect
the devil
vscruel mistress
  • Informal
29 7.0

Something very difficult to do or deal with

portrays the same idea but as an unkind relentless force

Antonyms

5 2.5

A person who is kind and caring

How Harsh

cruel mistress
  • Literature
9.1
taskmaster
8 7.2
stern
42 4.3

Surface Forms

Morphology

cruel + mistress

This is a simple adjective + noun composition: 'cruel' (harsh, unkind) modifies 'mistress' (a female controller or ruler), so the phrase literally suggests a controlling female figure who is harsh. As a metaphorical personification (e.g. 'Time is a cruel mistress'), a B1 learner who knows both words can readily infer it means an unforgiving or relentless force, making the phrase transparently compositional.

Etymology

Cruel mistress may come from old writers who imagined hard forces like time or fate as a woman in charge, a mistress who is cruel. So calling something a cruel mistress means it is 'harsh' and 'unforgiving', demanding much and giving little.