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hot and bothered

hot and bothered

2 7.0
Feeling nervous and upset because of stress or embarrassment
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : nervioso
  • He always gets hot and bothered when she talks about moving away, as he can't imagine being apart from her.
  • get hot and bothered
  • so hot and bothered

But yeah, hope you enjoyed and I hope you're staying sane and safe in this heat and that you're not too hot and bothered.

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Examples

  • You're hot and bothered?

  • After hearing the surprise announcement, she felt hot and bothered, unable to calm her racing heart.

  • It's like throwing cold water on a hot and bothered person.

  • lt gets him all hot and bothered, especially show tunes.

  • Let's move on to home decor because now your fashion and I get all hot and bothered about design.

  • A lot of people get very hot and bothered by the unfortunate nickname it has accrued throughout the search for it.

    Blog text (4)
  • And they'd ordered him down here in a panic, all hot and bothered about his hugs.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • Nothing impresses me less than getting cheese on something when I wanted it without cheese, and the person who took my order didn't write it down. That just gets me all hot and bothered.

    Blog text (4)
  • Dishonored has been getting me rather hot and bothered with its encouragement of player creativity and inventiveness, but at this point I've consumed enough gameplay footage to hold me over until the game's impending launch next month.

    Blog text (30)
  • Don't get hot and bothered over minor issues; it's important to keep things in perspective.

Synonyms

upset
vshot and bothered
1.0

Feeling sad or worried because something bad happened

focuses more on anxiety from stress excitement or embarrassment
uptight
vshot and bothered
  • Informal
77 5.0

Nervous and tense so you cannot relax

is about temporary anxious agitation from stress excitement or embarrassment
agitated
vshot and bothered
49 4.1

Feeling nervous, upset, and not calm

is the more informal idiomatic way to show those feelings
flustered
vshot and bothered
14 4.1

Being nervous and confused because of an unexpected problem or pressure

is felt more generally from stress excitement or embarrassment
feverish
vshot and bothered
9 3.8

Full of strong excitement and hurried activity

is less extreme and focuses on anxious or upset feelings
fevered
vshot and bothered
7 5.3

Excited and hurried because of strong feelings

is milder and emphasizes worry or embarrassment rather than frenzy
perturbed
vshot and bothered
1 6.4

Worried or upset because of something unexpected

is the more informal conversational way to name those feelings
rattled
vshot and bothered
  • Informal
1 7.0

Feeling nervous and confused after a sudden, unexpected event

is instead used for anxiety from stress excitement or embarrassment
het up
vshot and bothered
  • UK
1 9.9

Feeling very upset or angry about something

is more about anxiety or embarrassment rather than anger
like a cat on a hot tin roof
vshot and bothered
1 9.9

Very nervous and unable to stay still because of worry or excitement

is used for general anxious upset rather than frantic physical restlessness
flurried
vshot and bothered
7.4

Feeling nervous and hurried after something sudden happens

is used more for anxiety from stress excitement or embarrassment
bothered
vshot and bothered
1.6

Feeling upset, worried, or slightly annoyed by something

is stronger showing anxiety or agitation from stress or embarrassment

Antonyms

735 1.0

Not showing strong feelings and being very still

4 3.5

Calm and not worried about problems

How Agitated

distraught
86 7.2
hot and bothered
  • Informal
2 7.0
bothered
1.6
uneasy
98 3.2
calm
735 1.0

Surface Forms

hot and bothered positive

Morphology

hot + and + bothered

The adjective 'hot' often has a sexual/attractive sense and 'bothered' signals agitation or discomfort, so a learner who knows both words could plausibly infer a sense of heightened arousal or flustered excitement. However, the specific erotic/sexual nuance of 'hot and bothered' is a partly idiomatic/metaphorical reading rather than a fully predictable compositional meaning, so it is not completely transparent to a B1 learner.

Etymology

The phrase hot and bothered paints a simple picture of someone warm and flustered, with hot meaning warm or sweating and bothered meaning upset or worried. So it came to mean 'feeling anxious or upset'.