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to harden

to harden

57 3.9
Make someone less sensitive to unpleasant things
  • verb
  • /ˈhɑrdən/
translation icon : endurecerse
  • Yet we avert our eyes... hardening our hearts to their pleas.
  • become hardened
  • a hardened attitude
  • hardened by life

And, you know, it hardens you for the next thing, right?

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Examples

  • You have to harden your heart in order to do such a horrible thing.

  • Time has had the effect of hardening positions and making the prospect of peace more remote.

    Academic text (2008)
  • I used to trust people too, but sometimes things happen that change the way you look at the world, that harden you as a person.

  • And, you know, it hardens you for the next thing, right?

  • She looks older because this lifestyle hardens you.

  • Through a mechanism of self-fulfilling prophecy, this group can easily turn into hardened system opponents.

    Academic text (2011)
  • Thus far, diplomacy and economic sanctions only seem to have hardened Iran's resolve to develop a nuclear capability.

    Academic text (2011)
  • And the situation will get worse because communal atrocities have hardened sectarian affiliations.

    Academic text (2006)
  • Mrs. Brown regarded the boy's scowling face, his slumped shoulder, his work-hardened hands trembling on his thighs.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • As he faced the harsh realities of life, he began to harden himself against future disappointments.

Synonyms

to desensitize
vsto harden
10 6.3

To make people and animals feel less strong reactions to pain, fear or loud sounds, often by repeated exposure

is broader, covering general becoming used to unpleasant things over time
to inure
vsto harden
  • Formal
4 8.9

Become used to something unpleasant so it no longer bothers you

causes reduced sensitivity rather than total lack of effect
to habituate
vsto harden
2 6.7

To get used to something new so it no longer seems strange

focuses on becoming less sensitive to unpleasant things via repeated exposure
to indurate
vsto harden
  • Formal
9.9

To make someone or something less able to feel pain and sadness from long hard experience

is milder and less forceful in tone and intensity

Antonyms

50 3.1

Make something less strong or harsh

Idioms

1 7.7

Become less kind or caring after being hurt

How Insensitive

to harden
57 3.9
to toughen
15 3.9
to get used to
514 2.4

Surface Forms

harden infinitive
hardened past
hardened past participle
hardening present participle
hardens third person singular

Morphology

harden = hard (semi-transparent) = hard + en

While the physical process of becoming hard is clear, the metaphorical use of becoming less sensitive is less direct.

Etymology

Harden comes from the old English word hard meaning 'not soft' and the ending -en that means 'make'. So to harden a person is to 'make them hard', explaining why the word means becoming less sensitive or more used to unpleasant things.