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hard-ass

hard-ass

7 9.3
Very strict and demanding about rules or work
  • adjective
  • /hɑrd æs/
  • Offensive
: cabrón (vulg.)
  • You know, you're really being a hard-ass about this, Frank.

OK, so that's where you are or you're just you're just the the hard ass girl, like the hard ass black girl.

Examples

  • Sorry for sounding like such a hard-ass, but if you walk down a street where I live, you'll see a lot of people whose lives have been ruined by drugs like meth and heroin.

    Blog text (32)
  • The coach was a real hard-ass when it came to practice schedules, insisting that every player arrive on time.

  • " That would be really hard for just the two of us, him being such a hard ass and all.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • Yeah, I'm a hard ass.

  • When did you become such a hard-ass?

  • Maybe you shouldn't have been such a hard-ass.

  • She said you were being a real hard-ass.

  • They're probably out there sharing tales about what a hard-ass their dad is.

  • What a hard-ass!

  • She can be a bit of a hard-ass about deadlines, making sure everyone submits their work promptly.

Synonyms

hard
vshard-ass
∞ 1.1

Needing a lot of effort and often strict or severe

is used specifically for very uncompromising behaviour toward rules and methods
strict
vshard-ass
371 3.2

Not allowing any exceptions and requiring rules to be followed exactly

is more informal and harsher in tone when enforcing rules
severe
vshard-ass
65 4.2

Very strict and harsh when judging or punishing people

is more informal and blunt in enforcing rules rather than formal judgment
hard-line
vshard-ass
  • Literature
31 7.2

Firm and unwilling to change views or plans, often in politics

applies that refusal broadly to everyday rules and methods rather than only policies
hard-nosed
vshard-ass
13 7.2

A practical, tough person who is not moved by feelings

focuses on practical toughness and realism rather than firm rule enforcement
hard-core
vshard-ass
10 7.5

Unwilling to change bad habits or beliefs

focuses on firm rules and methods rather than stubborn negative behaviour resistance
hardline
vshard-ass
10 6.8

Very strict and unwilling to change policies or make compromises

applies the same uncompromising attitude more broadly to personal rules and methods

Antonyms

31 4.4

Not strict about rules and punishment

easy-breezy
  • Informal
5 6.1

Simple and relaxed, not difficult or serious

How Strict

draconian
  • Formal
27 8.9
hard-ass
  • Offensive
7 9.3
strict
371 3.2
firm
209 2.7

Surface Forms

hard-ass positive

Morphology

hard-ass = hard + ass (transparent) = hard + ass

The meaning is directly built from 'hard' + the vulgar noun 'ass' (derogatory intensifier), yielding a predictable sense 'a strict/tough person'.

Etymology

Hard-ass comes from hard ('tough') and ass ('donkey' or a rude word for a person), so a helpful way to remember it is to picture someone as tough and stubborn. That's why calling someone hard-ass as an adjective means they are very strict and not willing to change.