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to go to pieces

to go to pieces

9 6.1
Lose control of your feelings because of shock or sadness
  • phrasal verb
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  • After hearing the bad news, she completely went to pieces and couldn't stop crying.
  • just go to pieces
  • things go to pieces
  • let myself go to pieces

Examples

  • Let's just not everybody go to pieces over this, okay?

    Fiction book (1999)
  • You don't have to go to pieces over it.

  • And, and, and you would think that if one of you just went to pieces here, that I would notice.

  • But break his heart, he goes to pieces, just like you or me.

  • Every time I pass a church, I simply go to pieces.

  • I was afraid she might go to pieces a little, now that we had done it.

  • I worked too hard to let myself go to pieces.

    Blog text (26)
  • The one thing that keeps him from going to pieces is his faith in me.

  • The last thing I need right now is a partner who goes to pieces at the smallest sign of trouble!

    Fiction book (1992)
  • You can't afford to go to pieces right now.

Synonyms

to fall apart
vsto go to pieces
  • Informal
193 4.2

To lose control of your feelings because of strong stress or sadness

is for sudden loss of emotional control after acute shock or distress
to break down
vsto go to pieces
111 3.9

To lose control of your feelings and cry or collapse

is mainly about losing mental or emotional control without physical collapse
to come apart
vsto go to pieces
44 3.1

To break into pieces or fall into separate parts

is about mental or emotional collapse, not literal physical separation
to break up
vsto go to pieces
  • Informal
38 5.0

Become unable to cope because of strong stress or emotion

is a shorter loss of control often triggered by shock or distress
to break apart
vsto go to pieces
26 3.0

To separate into pieces, for example a machine or a group

is about emotional loss of control, not literal physical separation
to come undone
vsto go to pieces
  • Informal
9 5.3

To begin to fail, fall apart, or lose control

is used specifically for emotional or mental loss, not structural failure
to come apart at the seams
vsto go to pieces
  • Informal
5 7.2

To fall apart or stop working properly after being stable

is about sudden emotional loss of control rather than long decline after stability
to dissolve
vsto go to pieces
4 5.3

To suddenly start crying or laughing and lose control

is for losing control often from shock or distress rather than sudden display

Antonyms

30 3.4

Stay calm and control your feelings when things are hard

27 5.4

To stay calm and control your feelings in a difficult situation

How Distressed

to go to pieces
9 6.1
to break down
111 3.9

Surface Forms

go to pieces infinitive
gone to pieces past participle
going to pieces present participle
goes to pieces third person singular

Morphology

go + to + piece

The phrase literally evokes 'go' (become) + 'pieces' (broken parts), so a learner who knows the words can infer a sense of 'falling apart' or becoming broken, which gives a partial clue to the idiomatic meaning. However the shift to an emotional/mental breakdown is a metaphorical extension that is not fully predictable from the parts without prior exposure, so the expression is only partially transparent.

Etymology

Go to pieces comes from the image of something fragile, like a plate, that suddenly breaks into many pieces. When a person 'goes to pieces', they feel like they cannot hold themselves together and 'lose control' of their feelings or thoughts, so the phrase means 'to lose emotional or mental control'.