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to fall apart

to fall apart

193 4.2
To lose control of your feelings because of strong stress or sadness
  • phrasal verb
  • /fɔl əˈpɑrt/
  • Informal
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  • He tried to stay strong, but the grief of losing his friend made him fall apart emotionally.
  • her world fell apart
  • families fall apart
  • things fall apart

And this woman is just falling apart inside the pain.

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Examples

  • At this point, she came to see me, stating that "her world was falling apart."

    Academic text (2007)
  • From the second you gave me that tape, my life has been falling apart.

  • So now when things fall apart and you ask who am I?

  • So we could just watch the world fall apart, I guess.

  • The course to which I dedicated my entire life fell apart in front of my eyes.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • And this woman is just falling apart inside the pain.

  • All I know is my mother is falling apart in front of my eyes...

    Fiction book (1994)
  • I was not letting anyone know that my marriage was falling apart, that things were happening.

  • But I'm like, OK, even though my relationship has like fallen apart, at least I still have my job.

  • Some kids are homeless because their families fell apart after divorce, or a parent lost a job or became ill.

    Academic text (2011)

Synonyms

to lose it
vsto fall apart
  • Informal
289 7.5

Suddenly stop controlling your feelings and become very angry or upset

is similar but often relates to deeper grief or trauma rather than sudden anger
to break down
vsto fall apart
111 3.9

To lose control of your feelings and cry or collapse

focuses mainly on emotional loss from stress, grief, or trauma
to break up
vsto fall apart
  • Informal
38 5.0

Become unable to cope because of strong stress or emotion

describes loss of control from stress or grief without implying long incapacity
to go to pieces
vsto fall apart
9 6.1

Lose control of your feelings because of shock or sadness

is similar but emphasizes stress, grief, or trauma rather than shock alone
to come undone
vsto fall apart
  • Informal
9 5.3

To begin to fail, fall apart, or lose control

is used mainly for losing emotional or mental control rather than structural failure
to come apart at the seams
vsto fall apart
  • Informal
5 7.2

To fall apart or stop working properly after being stable

emphasizes emotional collapse from stress rather than structural failure over time
to crack up
vsto fall apart
  • Informal
4 7.4

To have a nervous breakdown because of too much stress

matches this idea but often highlights grief or trauma specifically
to dissolve
vsto fall apart
4 5.3

To suddenly start crying or laughing and lose control

is broader, covering general loss of mental control from stress or trauma
to decompensate
vsto fall apart
  • Specialized
3 8.9

To lose normal physical or mental ability because of illness

is narrower, focusing on emotional collapse from stress, grief, or trauma
to come unhinged
vsto fall apart
  • Informal
2 8.2

To lose control of your feelings and act very upset

is similar but centers on stress or grief as the usual cause
to lose one's head
vsto fall apart
  • Informal
1 6.4

To become very upset and unable to think clearly

focuses more on ongoing emotional collapse caused by trauma or grief
to lose one's mind
vsto fall apart
  • Informal
1 6.7

Become very anxious, confused, or upset and act in a way that does not make sense

is about losing control emotionally rather than prolonged anxiety or confusion
to lose one's shit
vsto fall apart
  • Offensive
9.9

To suddenly become very angry or upset in a way you cannot control

conveys similar loss of control but in neutral language suitable for learners
to drop one's bundle
vsto fall apart
  • UK
9.9

To suddenly lose control of your feelings because you feel overwhelmed

is the general term for losing mental or emotional control from stress
to lose the run of oneself
vsto fall apart
  • Archaic
9.9

Act in a confused or uncontrolled way because of strong emotion

refers specifically to loss of emotional or mental control from stress

Antonyms

30 3.4

Stay calm and control your feelings when things are hard

How Composed

composed
1 4.3
to hold it together
  • Informal
61 5.6
collapse
350 4.1
to fall apart
  • Informal
193 4.2
to break down
111 3.9
to crack
145 6.5

Surface Forms

fall apart infinitive
falling apart present participle
falls apart third person singular
fell apart past
fallen apart past participle

Morphology

fall + apart

The literal combination of 'fall' (to move downward or drop) and 'apart' (into pieces) transparently conveys the idea of 'coming undone' or breaking into pieces, so learners can readily infer a physical sense. However, the emotional/mental meaning 'to lose control' is a metaphorical extension of that physical image; it is partially predictable (common cross-linguistically) but not fully derivable without prior exposure.

Etymology

The phrasal verb fall apart is also used for people; one popular image is a person whose life seems to fall into pieces and come apart, so they 'lose control' or 'become very upset'.