to fall apart
- phrasal verb
- /fɔl əˈpɑrt/
- Informal
- He tried to stay strong, but the grief of losing his friend made him fall apart emotionally.
- her world fell apart
- families fall apart
- things fall apart
And this woman is just falling apart inside the pain.
- And this woman is just falling apart inside the pain.
- So now when things fall apart and you ask who am I?
- So seeing this sort of narcissistic falling apart, you may restart contact.
- And yes, he falls apart in the playoffs, but OK, he's still better.
- But, you know, the world had fallen apart on them.
- And for me, man, I, my entire world falls apart.
- My whole company was destroyed and my whole life fell apart.
- Now in a sense, I want to say it's OK to fall apart.
Examples
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At this point, she came to see me, stating that "her world was falling apart."
Academic text (2007) -
From the second you gave me that tape, my life has been falling apart.
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So now when things fall apart and you ask who am I?
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So we could just watch the world fall apart, I guess.
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The course to which I dedicated my entire life fell apart in front of my eyes.
Fiction book (1996) -
And this woman is just falling apart inside the pain.
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All I know is my mother is falling apart in front of my eyes...
Fiction book (1994) -
I was not letting anyone know that my marriage was falling apart, that things were happening.
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But I'm like, OK, even though my relationship has like fallen apart, at least I still have my job.
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Some kids are homeless because their families fell apart after divorce, or a parent lost a job or became ill.
Academic text (2011)
Synonyms
Suddenly stop controlling your feelings and become very angry or upset
To lose control of your feelings and cry or collapse
Become unable to cope because of strong stress or emotion
Lose control of your feelings because of shock or sadness
To begin to fail, fall apart, or lose control
To fall apart or stop working properly after being stable
To have a nervous breakdown because of too much stress
To suddenly start crying or laughing and lose control
To lose normal physical or mental ability because of illness
To lose control of your feelings and act very upset
To become very upset and unable to think clearly
Become very anxious, confused, or upset and act in a way that does not make sense
To suddenly become very angry or upset in a way you cannot control
To suddenly lose control of your feelings because you feel overwhelmed
Act in a confused or uncontrolled way because of strong emotion
Antonyms
How Composed
- Informal
- Informal
Surface Forms
Morphology
The literal combination of 'fall' (to move downward or drop) and 'apart' (into pieces) transparently conveys the idea of 'coming undone' or breaking into pieces, so learners can readily infer a physical sense. However, the emotional/mental meaning 'to lose control' is a metaphorical extension of that physical image; it is partially predictable (common cross-linguistically) but not fully derivable without prior exposure.
Etymology
The phrasal verb fall apart is also used for people; one popular image is a person whose life seems to fall into pieces and come apart, so they 'lose control' or 'become very upset'.